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Thanks Ellie
my mom was 98 and memory was slipping. I was with her right up to last breath and was difficult to watch. Knew it was coming but still feels like a real void. Am married to a very nice but very unaccepting wife. Hard to find private time for Ellie , but after many attempts I know shes never going away from who I am.
many thanks for the response and hope we can keep in touch here
ellie huggs
Ellie, thankyou so much for sharing with us your story.
I truly understand how terrifying it must of been for you when you told your mum. Now that that part is over I can only wonder that a burden it has been lifted from your shoulders, I wonder even that you may even feel relieved as well and have a lighter step.
I know that you were at first deeply concerned but I also notice from reading your story that your mind was made up as if driven by some unknown force.
Ellie I am genuinely happy for you.
hugs Gwenny.
Hi Gwen
Yes ... this was back in the summer of 2023 (the thread has just resurfaced, and so people have started commenting again) but telling her did indeed feel as though a weight I'd been carrying for my whole life suddenly wasn't there any more. I told my middle sister around a week later; she, too, has turned out to be a major ally.
I realise that not everyone's circumstances allow them to tell a parent or a sibling about their crossdressing (indeed, I also have an older transphobic sister who I haven't told) but I'm so glad I did it.
Hugs
Ellie x
Hi Ellie,
My condolences on the loss of your mom. It’s a difficult situation. Despite her failing memory it’s terrific you were able to share Ellie with her.
Alice
