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Sort of First time out in public

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(@kelgels)
Estimable Member     Tasmania, Australia
Joined: 2 years ago

I am happily married, but with a wife who does not approve of cross dressing so my dressing is done in secret.  I have been out in public away from home where I don't know any one numerous times.  Normally I will try to keep my self distanced from people especially kids.  But recently will infact Monday this week I did something I had wanted to do for a long time.  Dressed in a top, camisole, bra, false breasts, shortish (mid thigh) skirt, pantyhose, modesty briefs, girdle and panties with clip on ear rings and a alice band I alighted from the car with my purse while wearing ballet flats and walked across the road and into a store to grab a couple of bottles of water as it was a warm day and I still had a 4 hour drive back home.  I sort of felt nervous but also confident, although facial wise I did not pass at all as a female, I purchased the water, nothing was said in the store the staff were all young (late teen, early twenties) cis females, they were polite and courteous towards me as I got my wallet out of my purse and put it back in and left, I could see the reflection of the store in a another parked car window as I left but they just went about their business.  I was proud of my self for doing it, I am a long way off going near masses of people, but felt confident when only round a small gatherings I can do this.  Nothing was said by pedestrians no looks of digust etc either.

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Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

That was a pretty big and bold step. Congratulations.

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(@Anonymous)
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Congratulations on taking this step, Glenn. Wishing you the very best in your CD journey.

Love,
Jen

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Duchess
(@aprilcdmf)
Prominent Member     Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

That’s awesome! Congratulations good for you glad it went well.

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(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Fantastic! A great step to take and encouraging that it went so well.

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Lady
(@juliemshaw)
Reputable Member     Spokane, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 10 years ago

Baby steps, Sweetie.  Then as your self confidence grows so will your steps. Soon you'll be stepping out tall and proud!

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(@bluefin)
Reputable Member     Brodhead, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

It is always fun to read about everyone that takes that first step of going out, maybe some day I will get the courage to do the same..............

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(@Anonymous)
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Thanks for sharing your outing. Every positive experience is an inspiration to anyone whos peeking out of that closet door and may just be the thing that opens the door a bit wider. When we share we give encouragement to everyone.

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(@debbiedd)
Noble Member     los angeles, California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

A big sister's hug now for being such a brave girl

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Duchess
(@elguapo)
Reputable Member     The Villages, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 10 years ago

What a thrill!!!

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(@justnikki)
Prominent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Congratulations on a big moment!

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(@jillleanne)
Prominent Member     Renfrew, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 2 years ago

Good for you. Everyone out there is too busy with their lives to worry about how you look. They just don’t care really.

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Congrats to you Glenn just keep it up you will get more confident about your girly self .. Sorry for the wifes reluctance to be a part of your girly side as many ladies here the opposite having a supportive wife  like myself included i dont get the opportunity to go out as a old school farm community  but last year went to Keystone in PA and going again here next month yea what a blast for us both wife and Stephanie had a wonderful week just being myself with wife in hand meeting so many CDH girls along with many othergirls just a wonderful time .. Good luck girlfriend ..

Stephanie Bass

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