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Started to tell the family

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(@dazzler)
Noble Member     Cardiff, South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Tonight I phoned my sister and told her about Cerys. I sent her a photo.
She fine but is worried for me, and also worried that "going public" will destroy my marriage. Whilst my wife is supportive, my crossdressing does cause serious problems.
My sister, with my permission, then phoned my brother, so he knows.
Whilst my sister was phoning my brother, I was messaging his son. I get on very well with my nephew. He's an amazing young man. Needless to say he is fine with it. He took the pss a little, but I would be disappointed if he didn't.
I then messaged my cousin, asking if she is available to talk.... That message hasn't been read yet.

This is happening because my wife and I have bought "spice girl" union jack dresses to wear on coronation day. I hope to take a photo of the two of us dressed up and post it to Facebook saying something like "We dressed up for the occasion". Whilst this won't be a coming out post, it will bring forth questions. If anyone asks, I won't deny anything. I'll be open and honest.

The friends that I want to know, know.
The family that I want to know, know.
Some of my neighbours know, either by me telling them, or by them seeing me.
Everyone else can find out through the grapevine/rumour mill, or by the occasional FB post.

Cerys

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(@wandaovahear)
Prominent Member     Washington, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

The couple that wears dresses together endure life’s stresses together. An old saying I just made up but I hope it’s true for you, love.

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(@ab123)
Famed Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

I came to that point where I needed to tell someone then it just snowballed. Those that love you and like you, knowing you for who you are will take it in their stride. Sure some may be uncomfortable with it and be a bit offish but it's who you are to them and not how you dress.

naturally those near and dear will have worries but so long as you have no incidents their worries will melt away. Now the cat is out of the bag your wife may be more relaxed about it too and wearing matching Union Jack dresses today will fly the flag for your coronation as Cerys for the people.

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