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I had a dream that started with the words, "It's okay son, it's still me!" Those words came from a woman, but in my dad's voice. As I looked closer, I could see it was my dad and he was crossdressed. There was so much I wanted to say in that instant. I wanted to tell him how much I understood him, how much I was just like him. Then the dream ended.
Before this dream, I've always wondered if my dad was some sort of crossdresser. He has some subtle feminine mannerisms, he has a keen eye for women's fashion, and there's an argument I remember that him and my mom once had that stands out, yet I don't quite remember the details of from my childhood.
I've also wondered if there's any way these gender feelings are genetic, and if my kids will have this same personal conflict. The dream did challenge me about how would I actually respond if someone told me they were a crossdresser. Would I suddenly be honest to that one person, knowing that more people could learn about this secret I have.</p>
Thanks for sharing this. I have wondered many of the same things myself. I believe there is some basis in crossdressing being genetic. I know for a fact it’s not a choice I, or anyone else I know, has made. Nor more than being gay is a choice. It’s part of who we were created to be. To fight it only makes the feelings of guilt, or of being less than normal, even stronger. The answer to this is way above my pay grade. I’d be interested to hear from someone who is qualified in this area in response to your queries.