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We read and enjoy everyone's stories about how things go well, when we are out and about as our femme selves
Here's a few that are well... not quite the same
Caty
1/,. I did a daylight drive in the late 90’s from Sophie’s Dressing Service in Plymouth down to Cornwall planning to stay at a very scary B and B near Mousle??? Why was it scary??? Cos I booked it through a TV mag at the time and was greeted by a very scary looking character in full BDSM gear. Black leather thigh boots, full black cape, the works. The “accommodation” was two rooms covered in all manner of BDSM stuff.
I lasted one night there and hightailed to to a “normal” hotel.
2/. Back here in Oz, (Sydney actually), again in the 90’s “stuuped me” took herself to a “different Dressing Service”. All was going very.. very.. well until some joker with a knife came rushing into the room and demanded money. Now as a security thing, I never took my normal wallet and ID to such establishments, so when he demanded money from me, I just gave him my spare wallet with the $$ for the night and he took off out of the room.
I quickly got rid of the make up and the clothes they had provided and found myself out on a very busy Sydney main road, no money, pitch dark and not a cab in sight. Luckily, one came not long after, so I ended up back at my hotel pleading with reception to let me back into my room, so I could pay the cab.
I almost felt like I should hide under the blankets until morning. Cos I could have easily finished up as a witness in an armed robbery case and divorced!!
3/.. Brisbane this time. I made “penfriends” with a rather “heavily built CD” and went to her house for “dressing and drinking.” I remember I dressed in my bridal gown
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/photo/the-sydney-bride/
After about 3 hours, “heavily built” wanted to get “frisky”. So I packed up and went to leave. Got as far as my rental car and “frisky” sat herself in the “boot/trunk” and would not move.
I got her out.. eventually, and of course never went back again.
Last but not least… Back in my “scaredy cat CD” days, (aka terrified somehow I’d get “outed”), I used to buy a lot of Caty’s outer clothes from upmarket recycle shops
See https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/photo/back-to-girls-like-us-in-london/
So I set myself to be in one,on a one morning in Sydney during a sales trip on what I thought would be a quiet day for the shop. Of course I’m in the change room and two “cis ladies" came in and start happily chatting to the owner, leaving me “stuck” in the change room. They left in just enough time for me to get out of the dress and the change room and make it on time for me to be at my client’s place.
These days, specially if I'm in Caty mode I just go about my business like any cis female would do so.
The last time I came close to being "outed" was buying some new bras at my favorite lingerie shop here in Melbourne. I'm good friends with the owner and when she suggested I try a bra on in her change room, I insisted on going out the back to the stock room to be fitted.
Mostly cos I was in drab at the time and did not want to cause a fuss if a "GG" wanted to use the room.
Sure enough a lady went in there for a fitting. Now If I'd have come out of that room, bare on top and jeans and sandals on below my waist she could have easily lost a sale. And a dent in her reputation in that suburb.
Happy dressing and "stay out of strife",
Caty.
Hi Caty,
"Scaredy cat CD". Lol, now that's a term I'm not unfamiliar with.
Thanks for the tales.
Emma x
Truly remarkable reading, TY. Glad no irreparable harm was encountered. And, you live to tell the tale. 💚
Nothing of the sort for me. Glad all worked out ok for you. Good idea about the decoy wallet.
Head on a swivel, always🥰
Number 1 no lie and apologize was funny adventure lol I couldn’t imagine walking into something like this lol 😂 thankfully you survived number 2 that’s just insane the emotions and anxiety wow couldn’t even imagine let alone fear thankfully everything worked out for ya and gave you some wild memories TC and be safe out there ladys
Wow Caty that's some experiences but fortunately yu carried on and didn't slam the closet door shut locking it behind you.
I can't say I have had any negative experiences when out en femme. Maybe I need to get out more., or at least check in to some seedy motels.🤣🤪
People ask me frequently about “issues” living here in Deep South, conservative Alabama. In 24 years I have never felt any dis-ease or fear for my safety. When I’m presenting as my authentic self, I “own the world.” Head up, shoulders back, smiles to all, and confident.
Thank you for sharing these amazing stories Caty!