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Reading the topic "Under Dressing Snafus," the topic of "escapees" from the panties came up. I thought I'd share a technique that helps me keep everything in place, even though panties - especially thongs - have such small gussets and I was blessed at birth.
I don't know if I can adequately describe this, but here goes. I pull the panties on as if they were going to fit fine. Then I run my fingers under and inside the "V" edges/elastic, then stretching them down and into the "crease" between equipment and leg, spreading the legs to make room for my hands. This pulls the front fabric down over the equipment a little bit. Then keeping the fingers under the elastic, I stretch and slide the elastic up and into the crease, continuing up through the hips, letting the fingers lift up the waste band that stretches and rests higher than when the panties just rest on the hips/belly. My hands keep lifting the waste band sliding from the front, across the hips, and all the way around back. Lifting the back waste elastic helps to hold the elastic up into the crease from the back. Warning: wedgies are usually a by-product.
What this does is essentially pull the gusset underneath and use more of the front fabric to hold the bits and pieces. Does that make any sense?
With this technique, I've been able to wear every pair of panties I've bought (online), including thongs, without "escapees," for hours at a time. Well it would be hours at a time if that was the interval between bathroom visits, lol.
Speaking of bathroom visits, this technique requires me to pull my pants down even if I don't sit, in order to spread my legs and recapture everything. So it means I'm better off going into a sit-down stall for privacy.
The bad part is that it tends to lift and do the opposite of tucking, leaving a bit of a (albeit smooth) mound. Not what I'd do if I was wearing a latex skirt sans tunic. Tucking is what I do in my Rubies or other bikini bottoms. Totally different technique.
But I'd use this technique for a draping skirt that doesn't cling. Warning: walking around the house shows much less than a windy day that presses the cloth into a clear outline.
I'd love to hear if this works for you.
Hugs, Lawren
I have tried tucking. Don't like it. I wear Aline dresses, or skirts, or a long top that hangs over my crotch area.
Or, just wear skinny jeans when drab.
No tucking required as over the years various hormones have put paid to the thing that once dangled between my legs. So no need to tuck or use any gaffs or trickery as almost have the 'camels toe" shaped part. Hugs x
I use the word camel toe though it should be plural as not quite perfected it you know gen hugs 🤗
Hugs 🤗 thanks Gen x
ohh, Lorie...
I’m obliged to tuck! The useless appendage I have is far to enlarged to be a clitoris but far too flaccid to be of any use whatsoever!
The only problem is when I want to ride my bike! I have changed seats on my bikes to reflect this change but even then I have had to make serious changes to my riding style.
The mountain bike is way too heavy on the seat... one tends to have more weight on the seat... the last time I rode, I was forced to release my tuck because of the pain factor. Today I rode my road bike but even then I tend to ride ‘on the rivet’ and that produces its own discomforts. I have just installed a new saddle with a slot for the bits but I need to ride tomorrow to test the configuration...
Besides that, I tuck every moment of the day and even during sleeping hours now as I have become very much used to that! Ohh, I clean every evening but immediately into the tuck. Oh, how I want to be rid of this nuisance!
Polly
Over the years the combination of hormones and sometimes a chasity cage has turned a bulge into nothing to see! Its been that long i sometimes forget that my genitals are outdoor ones as cant see anything down there 😔 the shrivel factor is amazingly after wearing a chasity cage using smaller and smaller ones x hugs
I've had great luck with panties from the Etsy vendor, LeoLines. Their panties have a non-stretch front panel on the interior, which flattens the area very nicely. Pricey, but nicey.
Oh Polly....you are so funny, I'm sorry for laughing at your misfortune....but that was hilarious..." riding on the rivet"...please, no more!!!!
Mary Jane, I totally agree ...I like loose and flouncy.... grace xx
See to me that is sexy. Don’t know why by it just is.
Thanks for sharing
I purchased some sling shot Gaffs from a website and they fit good. I’m not blessed but it grows when needed lol...anyways I tuck my tool down and force my testis up into the canal and it stays like that all day.
Still get erections from time to time and it’s very uncomfortable but I just task my mind with something else and the erection goes away.
That is golden..
Seen some gaffs that gives that look some of them cheap others can go up in price.
Nuts off problem solved, I wonder is wearing those latex realistic vaginas and a flat top saddle would make any difference?