Underdressing

Sorry I postef this topic twice. This website responds slow on my phone and I get impatient and keep tapping submit. Lol. Sorry

Fixed Samantha. Maybe next time don't be so hasty. Good things come to those who wait.

Thank you Jane

Hi Samantha, no worries girl.  I've been dressing forever and only now have I been venturing out underdressed.  It's scary, you're positive that everyone can tell but they can't and you know what, most won't even care. The ladies here at CDH are helping me learn to be patient with myself and only do what I'm comfortable with.

Jillian

Thank you so much!

Hi Samantha,  yes, very similar. I'm just starting to experiment with out and about. I also have to be careful, my wife knows I enjoy dressing but would not accept me going out. So I have to wait until I have the house and day to myself which doesn't happen often.

Krissy

I can relate to Samantha and especially and Krisy . I underdress more since Leonara time only comes when the opportunity presents itself.

Hi Samantha. Welcome to CDH. You'll find a gaggle o' great gals here.

I underdress daily, though haven't yet had the gumption to wear a bra under my male clothes, other than one day last week when my wife and I went Christmas shopping. That day I wore a heavy sweatshirt, and had my coat on, so there was only a very minuscule chance of being caught. I do wear panties every day, and today I'm wearing stockings, too. I also know exactly what you mean about dressing being a turn-on at first, but now is just...  normal.

I would absolutely love to get dressed completely - wig and all - and go out. I don't because doing so would mean having to walk out of my house dressed, and risk my neighbors seeing. While I would love to go out to eat or go shopping at the mall while dressed as Rose, I'm not yet ready to confront neighbors. So, for now, Rose remains in the proverbial closet at home.

I've been getting bolder - coming out to my kids, for example - so I'm sure it's just a matter of time until I decide to stop caring about the neighbors. But until then, Rose either has to be in-home only, or I'd need to find someplace where I could change after arriving. The ladies here have been wonderful for my progression as Rose - advice, friendship, encouragement. I hope you find CDH as welcoming and beautiful as I have.

See Samantha, lot's of girls know how you feel.

Have fun and enjoy being who you are.

I'm also the same way I enjoy to cross dress because of the turn on and the way it makes me feel but at the same time my male self is also important to me. I feel like having a happy balance of both is a completely healthy way to live. You are certainly not alone if you wanna keep living as a male but on occasion live as female.

My dear Samantha,

I've found that underdressing is actually a joy and surprisingly easy. I've gotten to the point where I routinely underdress when (for example) I go to the store. This is especially easy in the winter for those of us in cooler climes because a jacket (mostly) hides the obviously femme accoutrements. I've even taken to wearing makeup at times when I shop. It's surprising what you can get away with if you concentrate on enhancement and not show. I typically wear modest pink lipstick, a hint of blush, and modest pink eye shadow. No one ever notices, or at least not that I've ever seen. After all, people rarely look closely and usually see what they expect to see. Then again, I can hope that the right person does notice. 😉

Best wishes,

Jamie

Great day for me today

i got home

changed into a lace top polka dot beige and white panty

matched it with a brown fishnet bra with A cup

female t neck sweater

gap female baby boot jeans

my cowbow boots and male socks

my toes are in essie dark blue

went shopping with my wife

felt great felt me

so relaxing being myself

I have underdressed in the past. Fast forward 15yrs, and with winter just around the corner, I plan to underdress whenever the opportunity presents itself (closet XD). I maybe so bold as to go for a drive.

Yes winter time makes under dressing much easier.  I went out in a sweat shirt and sweat pants covering my lingerie on a business trip many years ago.  It was thrilling.