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Congratulations Diana. Going out anywhere is a big step. My first time out was in 1978 or 9. I remember it like it was yesterday and how nervous I was. You are not alone as you can see by this great site.
Yours Terri
Thank you Terri, I loved every second that I was outside the gate - what an incredible feeling 💋 Diana.
Congratulations Diana, that is awesome. I too remember my first time out in public. Well actually it is impossible to forget as there are probably twenty photos of me on the internet. Now that you've taken that first step, you can start planning your next step. You'll find that you'll have a whole lot of fun new adventures. Your first drive. Your first time in a store. Your first time you talk to someone. Your first time using the ladies restroom. And I promise that it does get easier. Stay safe, stay healthy, All the Best, Hugs, Krista.
Thank you Krista, my journey will be small steps I think, will have to see what happens, am spending the day as femme as I can just to see how it feels, so far so delightful..... 💋💋 Diana.
Diana
How wonderful GIRL!!
It is incredibly exciting!! I understand the shaky OMG did I just do that?!!
We love hearing the inspiration bounce around back and forth!!
Can't wait to hear about the next adventure!!
XO Robyn 💃❤️
Thank you Robyn, the support from all the girls on CDH is fantastic. I can't wait to see what happens next as well - can't believe it's me doing this, such fun! 💋
Hi Diana , you have just taken the biggest step in your CD journey, many hurdles to come . Take it slowly , gently and with care and confidence. Pyxx.
My pleasure Sweetie!
I was "You" not long ago. I know how liberating it feels!
❤️💃
Hi Diana,
Congratulations on your first outing. It doesn’t seem like much but you overcame the fear and took that first step.
Alice
Thank you Alice, I am looking forward to the next step! 💋
Thank you Py, long journey ahead I think but what fun! 💋
Congratulations on your venturing out for the first time. It is a big deal no matter how little you may think you did. If you were real excited, you will want to do more. Maybe you will do a little at a time or just go all out and go for it.
My first time out dressed was just wearing pantyhose with guy shorts and guy clothes. My legs were hair free. I had wanted to do this so much for so long. I hadn't anticipated the fear that would come along with it. I chickened out many times. Just walking from the house to the car was a huge deal.
One day I walked from the house to the car and got in. WOW! That was exciting. I drove to a store. I was sitting there nervous but excited. Finally I got out of the car and walked up to the store. I looked inside, turned around and walked back to the car. That was huge. I drove around to a few stores and did the same thing. No one seemed to notice I was wearing pantyhose. My confidence built.
It took a while but I finally walked into a store. I wanted to buy some pantyhose but my nerve was not strong enough yet. Finally after going to several stores and locating their pantyhose, I did it. I went in a store, went to the pantyhose, chose several pairs, went to the register, paid for them and left. WOW! That was so exciting. Off to another store, then another and another to do the same thing.
Then I began wearing short girl's shorts and going out in them, eventually buying more pantyhose and short shorts. Then I went out and bought some platform wedge heels to wear with my pantyhose and short shorts.
Then I bought some bras and a few wigs. I stuffed pantyhose into the bra, put on a wig and began going out more femme, trying to look like Daisy Duke.
Then I went all femme. I got some dresses, stilettos, makeup and began going out all dressed.
it took about a year to go from wearing pantyhose out with guy shorts and clothes to going fully femme. There was a ridiculous amount of chickening out along the way. But it was something I wanted to so much for so long.
What you do, how much you do and how long it takes is up to you and your level of desire.
Thank you Patty, your kind words mean a lot to me. I look forward to introducing Diana to the outside world one step at a time. 💋 Diana.
Congratulations Diana! As you can see, you have now joined the many of us that have ventured out, most first steps were around the house as you described, but all were momentous. Looking back, around the house us where we can be easily identified but it always made sense and seemed safe. Good for you! My first time was as a child shopping with my mom but I count the first time as when I was older and alone. Purposeful. Anxious. Exhilarated. Just to take the trash out, like you...I know that feeling when you reach for the door. Now, let your mind wander and pick through all your stuff to wear something else next time and have fun doing that, both thinking about it and then doing It! XO Staci XO...
Wonderful! Those first steps are always the hardest, but they get easier.
I must say, as I read this my first thought was "no pants?" (lol) Or skirt, or leggings or whatever! Seriously, what were you wearing on your lower half? Because doing this in a skirt just makes it all that more exciting. Just sayin'. Something to aim for on your next outing, Sweetie.
Keep at it - stay safe and pretty.