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To begin it’s hard to find time and places to CD because I have do without my SO knowing (she loves having a handsome man) and by extension anyone who knows us. So I was CD at walmart the other day(it far enough from were I live) and was trying on bunch of different clothes. Well waiting for the change rooms another person ask about them and the employee without hesitation said that Lady is next, referring to me! It makes me feel so good to be recognized! I often fell like I’m an imposter and people see me as just a guy in woman’s clothes. But for the employee to say lady (without hesitation) and not just say something like they’re or that person is next when pointing to me makes me feel like I’m passing and makes me feel happy.
What a wonderful story!
Jane -
What a lovely experience for you. Hope you have more like it. Isn't it funny how we are our own worst critics when it comes to how we look.
XOXO
Suzanne
It certainly is so exciting to be seen and treated like a woman while out in public by strangers. It's both fulfilling and satisfying to receive such acknowledgements . I am sure there will be many more in your future Jane.
It is so rewarding to us to be treated as we present, and on the other hand so depressing to be treated opposite the gender that we present. I can recall the first time I was treated as a woman, when a hotel clerk asked “ and how are you ladies doing tonight”. It was so nice to hear. I never thought that would happen to me, but when it does, especially the first time, you’ll never forget it.
Jane kudos on your trip to Walmart
It is a lovely gesture, whether they can tell or not, the fact that we’re are presenting ourselves as ladies, and emphasize lady as I like to dress age and place appropriate.
I’ve had a similar experiences, it is such a thrill to have a young woman address you as a woman with respect.