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I use to dress for months then one day I was over for some months and then go right back into dressing. I told about the pink fog (For those of you that dont know the pink fog is where you have the the need to dress after not dressing for a while.) and I figured that what it was. I was recently diagnosed with ADHD. I have researched the symptoms and one of them is you pick up a new hobby. You love the hobby learn everything about it then just as suddenly you drop it. Not even go near it for months or longer pick up a new hobby. Then all of a sudden you go back to it. You will go I love this why did I quit doing it. Now im sitting here thinking is that what im doing with dressing and was it the Pink fog or the ADHD?
Good question. No easy answer.
Hi! Myself…I am certain I do not have ADHD and what you wrote about hobbies and the pink fog certainly applies to me. If that helps ☺️
A rather interesting question actually. For what it's worth, I would not bother trying to find an answer because as Mary Jane noted before, correctly in my opinion, there is no easy answer! If it was me, I'd simply accept what I am and carry on as usual.
And I do! 🙂
I am happy with who I am both sides of me. I was thinking outloud.
Hi Brandie, I've been on Concerta for years. So I get exactly what you are saying.
I didn't know why I had so much trouble staying on task. I still struggle with audio distractions (I hear EVERYTHING going on around me and have trouble filtering sometimes) but in addition to ADD I think I'm on the edge of the Autism spectrum. It's weird how coming out has helped that - I have struggled so much with social connections before this.
Hugs,
Brie
I wonder if all the innerworkings of the human mind will ever be mapped. It seems like some people want to know why anybody who I’d different, isn’t “normal” and try to find a way to fix them.
I’d dare say, no one’s normal. We all have our quirks.
My wife, after many years of marriage, came to the conclusion that I am probably on the autism spectrum with symptoms or behaviors similar to Asperger’s. So what?
Being Raquel some of the time, makes me happy. I hope I never figure out why.
Hi Brandie,
I'm not saying that it's not ADHD - it may well add a dimension that those without ADHD can't visualise - but I am saying its likely to be much more complicated. I wouldn't really call dressing a 'hobby' either. There's plenty here have spoken about trying to stop, only to start again. I don't mean to trivialise the comparison, but I haven't come across that compulsive stop / start with say, doing jigsaw puzzles, or pottering with boys toys.
Marti xxx