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So this morning I was totally going to be brave and wear a bra to work today! After my shower I put on my panties and then the bra. I stood there for a moment thinking about it, but then continued to dress in my gross man clothes. I put on my white t-shirt and then my blue collard golf shirt. I checked in the mirror to see if the bra was visible through the loose fitting clothes I was wearing. It looked pretty good and the bra was just barley visible where the padding was and figured nobody would notice so I finished getting dressed. I had breakfast and then just as I was about to walk out the door this little voice inside me started screaming that the bra was totally visible and that somebody was going to notice and ask what I was wearing under my shirt! I could not handle it and took the bra off and went off to work. Later I was disappointed in myself and keep asking myself why I care. The bra, the panties, the everything is McKenzie and McKenzie is me. I guess I am just not quite ready for that yet!
Has anybody else experienced this type of panic when heading out underdressed? I am pretty sure nobody would have noticed and I chickened out anyways. Well there is always tomorrow right?
Thanks for reading...
Kenzie
Yes McKenzie, been there done that. I finally did do it one day, but I did not go to work. I went to the grocery store and I wore my bra and panties under my male clothes, but I'm still a chicken because it was winter and I also had a jacket on. I'm gonna make it my goal to do it this month. (Without the jacket of course.)
I have a few bras that don't have much padding & wear them all the time grocery shopping, even have some loose fitting women's jeans that I like to wear & a comfortable pair of women's sneakers. Never did makeup & wig but feel real feminine wearing what I want & nobody has ever said anything (at least not that I could hear). Now to work, probably not but have worn my pantie there.
Just do it
BillieJo
Hi girls.......yes, I have worn my bra to work but don't in summer....too hot. Now I am retired I do same routine except I use silicone breast forms now......and the whole 9 yards. Moved to small retirement town. No-body says anything. Life is bliss.
Lady Veronica
Hi Mackenzie, hope you're good. I was like you panicking about people noticing my bra. But one day I bit the bullet and thought why worry I am who I am and I feel comfortable in my bra. The worry was I work in home care looking after, elderly, sick and infirm people, what would they think not to mention my colleagues one morning I decided I would go for it I got myself ready for work as usual and then nervously put on my bra then my uniform top it's very much like a nurse's uniform which is a plus , I was apprehensive at first but once I got into my work thoughts of what I was wearing disappeared, I knew I was wearing my bra and it felt so good but the care of others was more in my mind Nobody noticed I was wearing it and if they did made no comment. This spurred me on I now wear a bra all the time and it's amazing I've even built up courage to now wear mascara everyday too, I feel so free and wonderful and my work colleagues know I'm transgender and they couldn't be more supportive. I'm glad I wore a bra to work that first time.
love and hugs
Sally
I wear the Wacoal b'tempted bralettes to work everyday. Item #910182. Great for sleeping in too!
Ashli
What you need to wear is a ladies silk undershirt. If you go to http://www.wintersilks.com and search for tee's and Knit tops, there a lot of styles that you can wear under your shirt that are plain but has that silky feel to it and if someone see's it just tell them its a silk t-shirt.
Thank you all so much for the wonderful advise! So guess what I did today? I did it! I wore a bra and panties to work today! I was so brave. I almost chickened out again this morning heading out the door, but I thought of you girls and your words of encouragement and I walked through the front door with my bra on! It was such an amazing feeling of accomplishment for me and I owe it all to the girls of CDH!! I could not have done it without you words of encouragement and advise! Thank you again so much!
I must say that wearing a bra to work was great! Having the lace and the straps covering my small breasts all day was great! I did not even get uncomfortable wearing it at all. Only usually it has my breastforms in it :), which of course I did not have in today! What an accomplishment for me today. I am celebrating by being dressed in my pink lace chemise nightgown and pink cotton panties (I love cotton, so soft), drinking an amazing glass of wine!
Hugggssssssss,
Kenzie
