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Things that make me smile....
I've been out this morning. I'm in Cerys mode. On the way home, I decided to pop into Greggs to buy two packs of their 4pk sausage rolls. (Greggs is the greatest place on the high street. A bakery that sells all the things that people say are bad for us)
Three people in front of ,me. A woman, a man, and another woman.
Can I help you miss? Order, walks away.
Can I help you sir? Order, walks away.
Can I help you miss? Order walks away.
My turn....
Can I help you?
The temptation to say "I'm a lady" a la Little Britain was strong. it would have been forking hilarious, but I didn't want to embarrass the chap behind the counter 🙂
All the effort to look good this morning, yet I still looked like Shrek in a dress 🙂
Cerys
Top marks to the lad to be polite and not embarrass you or himself. I suspect that he has seen worse than shrek in a dress in Greggs, I know I have and that is some of the women.
Oh and all hail Greggs sausage rolls...
I’m not much on the whole “my pronouns are…” thing but a gender neutral form of address has a lot of practical appeal for me. I think a poll is in order to find one.
My first and only time out dressed, I had just gotten a make over at MAC'S. It was later in the evening near Christmas during Covid, and I ventured out in girl jeans, wig, forms, camisole, lady's knit sweater, and face mask. I went to a one stop shopping store and picked up a few things, then headed for the self check out. At the self check out the clerk looked at me and said ma'am there's an open register over here. Score one! After ringing up my goods I headed for the exit I had come in. There was a worker at the door and she said ma'am this door is locked now. Almost score two, except I blurted out in full male baritone "oh it is?" Totally clocked! Afterwards I went through a drive though to get food. Got to the order screen and tried using my best femme voice, and the clerk said I'll have that oder right up for you sir. Nothing was said when I pulled up to the window in femme, but I felt totally clocked again. So all in all a win, a tie and a loss. I'm hoping I get the chance to do it again sometime!
😁
I'm male. He/Him. Even when I spend the time and effort to look female, rather than just dress as a female, I'm still he/him. I wouldn't have been offended if the young man had said sir or miss. I wasn't offended that he said neither. It just made me smile.
There was no one behind me, so we chatted for a minute or two about the pouring rain, and the hope that it clears up and turns sunny by next weekend. I don't disguise my voice. If people see me for what I am then that's fine with me. 🙂
Cerys.
Cerys -
What a lovely experience for you. It is nice that he didn't address you one way or the other to avoid embarassing either of you.
XOXO
Suzanne
