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What if your Brother is your Sister?

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(@midwesterngirl)
    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hey ladies

I have worn Womens clothes for ever.  It started with moms stuff..progressed to my sisters stuff..I never dressed my little brother up...I assumed it was just a thing I did. Fast forward 40 Years....My little Brother Says ...She.... wants to live life full time as the woman she feels she is. His/Her wife has tried to keep the family of 4 together but its not to be. Looking back through the few years they tried I now see She was struggling. Drinking turns out to be more of a problem than transitioning for her. She doesn't feel like drinking was effected her life..In here somewhere I confided in my sister that I too, think I look good in a dress and heels. We keep this between ourselves as far as I know. Now, fast forward 15 years. I've been Sober over 15 years. I've told my wife and she basically accepts Bree. Sis is on her own now...and, She is finally out of prison after her 5th DUI..

She questions her identity to this day.

I can't tell you girls why I thought I should share any of this....I've just been in a mood lately. 

Huggs

Bree

 

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Lady
(@leslienix)
Joined: 7 months ago

Reputable Member     Southport, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Posts: 170

@midwesterngirl Lana Wachowski and Lilly Wachowski are American film and television directors, writers and producers. The sisters are both trans women.

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Lady
(@leslienix)
Joined: 7 months ago

Reputable Member     Southport, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Posts: 170
  • Identical twins Mayla and Sofia underwent a five-hour sex change surgery
  • Dr Jose Carlos Martins performed the surgery on twins one day apart
  • He said it is the 'only reported case in the world' of twins who were male at birth undergoing female gender confirmation surgery together 
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(@midwesterngirl)
Joined: 5 years ago

    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 214

@leslienix I will have to check them out..I'm guessing environment influences might have something to do with it. Thank you for reading 

 

Hugging

Bree

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Lady
(@orcharddwee)
Joined: 4 months ago

Estimable Member     Staten Island, New York, United States of America
Posts: 81

@midwesterngirl wow 15 years is a major accomplishment and you should feel proud of that. As someone who keeps battling addiction I know how difficult it is to keep the demons away. Good for you for being so strong.

I'm sorry that your sister is having her problems and I hope she gets them sorted out. Honestly I also question my identity and sometimes feel guilty about what I do. What keeps me going is having others to talk to. I hope you get in contact with your sister soon so you can give her the support she needs through her trials.

Thanks for sharing and I wish you and your sister the best.

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(@midwesterngirl)
Joined: 5 years ago

    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 214

@orcharddwee 

We actually had a long conversation by phone a couple weeks ago. Shortly after she got off of work...she got a little more inebriated as the conversation progressed. I am planning to go and see her in the following weeks. 

Thanks for reading 

 

Hugs

Bree

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Duchess
(@loneleycd)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 2152

@midwesterngirl Sorry to hear about your brother/sister. I hope and pray she will get her head straighten out. Thrilled to hear you have yourself straighten out. 

Cassie 

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(@midwesterngirl)
Joined: 5 years ago

    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 214

@loneleycd Thanks Hun

 

It was not without its struggles for sure. I did end up going inpatient all those years ago. I needed the help...my wife made sure I asked for the help...Therapy, meets, and my wifes bullhead love saved my life. 

Hugs

Bree

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Duchess
(@rozalyne)
Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Bree,

Sometimes a problem shared is a problem halved, it lifts a weight off your shoulders if you share it with friends and family, well on CDH you have a whole world full of friends and a family of sisters to share it with, 

With much love Roz ❤️ Blow Kiss  

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(@midwesterngirl)
Joined: 5 years ago

    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 214

@rozalyne For sure..It is wonderful having this group of ladies that I call friends.

 

Huggs

Bree

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Bree -

First, congrats on 15 years a wonderful accomplishment.

As to your brother/sister I am sorry to hear of his continued issue and hope he finds the help he needs. As to her questioning her identity I hope she can find some help to resolve that issue as well.

Thank you for sharing.

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@midwesterngirl)
Joined: 5 years ago

    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 214

@cdsue Thanks Dear

I'm one of the few in my family that makes sure to refer to her as She. She has burned some bridges..more by being intoxicated and silly then being dressed as a girl while doing it. 

Huggs

Bree

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 Leah
Baroness
(@leah63)
Noble Member     Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Congratulations on being sober!  Interesting that both you and your brother cross dress.  Curious of anything at home started both of you dressing??

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(@midwesterngirl)
Joined: 5 years ago

    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 214

@leah63

our father died when I was 14. But, I tried my mom's  stuff before that. She was a strong woman and I find it amazing she raised 6 children on her own. Definitely someone to emulate..

Thanks for the post

Hugs

Bree

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(@Anonymous 99924)
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Joined: 2 months ago

Congrats on being sober for fifteen years. Hope your sister can find some peace, I know that it will not be easy. I myself have gender dysphoria and it has been with me for over 55 years. 

Allison 

XX

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(@midwesterngirl)
Joined: 5 years ago

    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 214

@allisonwannabe 

Thanks Allison. I am sorry you had to struggle with the dysphoria.  For some reason I escaped that feeling.I have not always loved myself and have struggled with depression but I somehow early in life decided..(much like Popeye.)...

I am what I am...

I pray you find peace in you..

Huggs 

Bree

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(@Anonymous 99924)
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@midwesterngirl 

Thank you Bree, I have found peace I have a very understanding and supportive wife. I wish you and your sister well.

Allison 

🤗 Hugs

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Topic starter
(@midwesterngirl)
    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Thanks for the well wishes Ladies. I know sometimes stuff just spills out of my mouth. I feel blessed to have all you to lean on. This is a Great community made by all the great members.

 

Huggs

Bree

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4010

@midwesterngirl Many CDs experience or need to deal with some big issues, but that only means that you are in good company here.

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Topic starter
(@midwesterngirl)
    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I am in great Company. Thanks for reading.

 

Huggs

Bree

 

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 11 months ago

I very much doubt my brother would accept Anna and therefore  wouldn't put it to the test.

Hugs,

Anna xx

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(@midwesterngirl)
Joined: 5 years ago

    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 214

@annaredhead 

I think most of my family would be accepting of Bree. I know that my sister has caused friction from her drinking much more so than being transgender. I know who my Sisters strongest allies are in the family. My remaining brother is included in that. Just wish I had answers to their questions. I can't say why I am a crossdresser exactly. 

 

Huggs

Bree

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1813

@midwesterngirl I would expect my family really wouldn't accept Anna so don't want to put it to the test. The people who have met Anna is very carefully selected and small group and I'm happy for it to stay that way.

Hugs,

Anna xx

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Sharing, caring, supporting, talking and loving unconditionally can resolve many issues. Addiction is so cruel but knowing you can pick up the phone or knock on the door and hear a friendly voice can be such a relief.

 

 

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(@midwesterngirl)
Joined: 5 years ago

    Monroe, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 214

@ab123 

Sis called again last night. I want to trust that those reasons are the motivation. Time will tell. Thanks for reading

Huggs

Bree

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