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I think a skirt does it for me. It is a visible thing that women wear and men generally don't. It requires attention when sitting down, standing up, and when getting in and out of a vehicle. It keeps the sun off the legs but lets the air in on a hot summers day. It falls over the legs on a cold winters evening while curled up on the sofa watching the TV, eating snacks in front of an open fire.
I like skirts; I have a lot of them!
Becca
I whole Heartedly agree with you Becca! Nothing says feminine like skirts and dresses! 👗 🥰
I have always like a cute tennis skirt with a nice pastel colored blouse or a nice sundress but, I am always looking for different styles. Do you have any suggestions on where to get inspiration?
@piperrose Apart from looking at women when out in the street, I don't think you can go wrong putting 'fashion' in the YouTube search box. You can follow the word with your age group for more specific designs.
@rebeccabaxter thank you that’s what I was thinking I am just trying to find what would look good on me and help me to get in tune with my feminine self. Because I don’t just want to look like a guy in a dress
Because I don’t just want to look like a guy in a dress
I think that is the goal for a lot of us and it makes for a lot of work unless one is lucky enough to have feminine features in the first place; I think it's all part of the fun.
@piperrose As I've progressed in my CD'ing I want to look nice, but blend in. Not overly gaudy & not too elegant. But I don't want to be plain. I love both your choices. For me, a cute tennis skirt is great for going to Wal Mart in the afternoon, & a sundress is great for casual dining. I'm from Texas, so waist down is blue jeans & cowboy boots.
My motivation is thinking about people I want to attract. By that I simply mean people I want to attract to have a conversation with. My motivation is not just wanting to be seen, but to talk to people.
For me...a lacy bra and panties set, one that fits comfortably, tight but not too tightly.
There are so many things that make me feel feminine. Having my nails done in a salon, I love French Tip nails. Slipping into stockings or pantyhose after shaving my legs, reaching around and hooking up a bra then popping the strap. Shopping in the women's department at a mall and trying on dresses. But if I have to choose one it's putting on my bras.
@pantyloverguy if I'm underdressing and could only choose one item it would be bra
I have to say a bra, with breast forms of course. It amazes me how realistic it looks on me. The only problem is that I have plenty of them but I still buy more. I don't think a girl can have too many bras.
Jules
@juliarey LOL. I have probably 30 now. I'm going to slow down my girl purchases for awhile. More than half are HD units to reign in my silicone forms the others I use for sleeping in etc, where light duty is fine. Storage is the limiting factor.
For me , it’s a skirt on my thighs, while the straps of my garter belt gently tug on thigh highs, there is just something about a skirt moving over nylon covered legs and silk panties. And also laying in bed, in silk panties and a long satin cami, it feels so feminine with the warmth of my wife’s arm wrapped around my chest when she is the big spoon.
@joannajoy Hmmm that is very nice. I agree the feeling of pantyhose covered by a nice (short) skirt is pretty cool. Looking at that combo in the mirror is even better, lol. I Love Rock and Roll sez Joan Jet. And short skirts.
@fatima And matching as well , looks and feels so feminine, black panties, black garters , coffee or black coloured thigh highs, black skirt or dress just above the knee. Or all white!! As long as the lingerie matches… everything is super sexy looking
laying out my black nighty on my bedspread waiting for me after a long bubble bath
That is a complicated question as everything from Lipstick to stockings, and wig to high heels affects many of my girl times. I lean more toward retro and vintage undergarments, and I can say that my Rago and Bali lacy shapewear is my "fem starter." being older, I began my dressing-up times wearing my mother's 60's style undies, even before pantyhose. Slips, full panty briefs, stockings, and bra, really made me feel feminine.
Where do I begin? Well I suppose at the beginning. My bra and forms with my panties starts everything. After that there's not one thing in particular, it's basically everything from my jewelry, to my shoes, to my hair and makeup.
I finally feel Estelle is in the room when I am putting on my lipstick. But that’s not enough for me.......I really need another gurls member pulsing inside of me to really feel feminine.
