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After 2 years of public crossdressing I’ve come to an interesting series of realizations.
1. I’m really not interested in drinking and bar hopping, especially while dressed. I’m not sure why so many gurls like to hang around bars.
2. I’m not that interested in hanging out in groups. Everyone has a different reason for cd and it’s difficult meeting all their needs.
3. I’m much more interested in finding people I have more in common with and getting to know them one or two at a time.
4. I don’t really need to go out while dressed. Spent all day recently with a cd friend eating out and 4 hours of mall walking. All positive contacts but I end up feeling so what.
5. I’m happiest when I can work and play around the house while dressed. For me the true joy of crossdressing is the wardrobe. I think I’m happier doing housework and reading than I am going out.
6. I love shopping and trying on different outfits, makeup and hair styles but I realize I’ll always be stuck with who I am.
7. At this point I feel clearly that transitioning is not in my future.
8. So I’m thinking of just being a stay at home girl. I’d still go out for special events but I really don’t need to go to the mall.
Love to all of you, Jennifer
Jennifer,
There are many people who are on the same or similar paths, but everyone's journey is different. No one is forcing you to share their journey. So if you've found what you like to do, go ahead, do it and do it proudly.
Dear Jennifer,
Nothing wrong with being a stay-at-home girl; you do what makes you happy. I don't drink, and have zero interest in bar-hopping, but I do enjoy going out...to the mall, to movies, or just to buy groceries. I'm also Dressed on most stay-home days because most of all, I enjoy being a girl.
Hugs,
Bettylou
Celeste Starre wrote: I can’t remember the last time I saw a woman in public wearing a dress or a skirt. That's been my complaint for the past 2 years, Celeste; but it's changing. About one-third of the ladies in church are now wearing dresses, they are showing up in the malls, and the mall department stores are all filled with a wide assortment of styles and colors. Hooray!
Hugs,
Bettylou
