Why I enjoy dressing...

I should add that I wholeheartedly support those who wish to transition. Your courage is a blessing. Xx

It is an and exhilarating feeling donning feminine clothes. I'm only quite new my self but with my wife's acceptance have enjoyed  being fully dressed. Still working on makeup but in time. I truly love to dress, and am always learning to do more and that in  it self makes it exciting. I try to dress as often as possible and hoping to eventually venture out, and that's going to call for more shopping as I need things to wear out. Just love it. 🌹

Thanks Stephanie. I do enjoy the sensation of wearing make up occasionally: it means I can enjoy the experience 'whole body' rather than neck down only in the mirror.

I'd never pass, but once or twice, when on holiday in Ibiza, have ventured along the beach in a silky dress. Felt heavenly! Also enjoy sitting on the balcony en femme.

Xx

ah good question.    i started with a pair of tights in a school play, i was hooked. when i was home alone and grandparents watching me i would sneak into my grandmothers dresses and nylons and play dress up. i was caught by my grandfather and nothing was said but make sure i put grandmothers stuff back where it belongs. my x dressing went away for years. got married, that was it seen all my wife's dresses and smell of perfume and watching her put on make up. i wanted to tell her to put some on me to. but never did. i kept it a secret for years. daughter seen a pic of me i left on my dresser and showed mom. daughter just said its his body and not hers. wife let it go and knows i dress up only when 2 adult kids are not home. i have my own dresses, panties, bras,make up, boob enhancers, pads, ear rings,perfume,slips, some skirts, necklaces, 1 pair of heels.  wife tells me when i can do what i like to do, that's the hint of i can dress up.  at times i am already there and loving it. wife would tell me i put on too much perfume.  she does see me but will not sit in same room as me and talk like 2 females and ask me how i feel dressed up, why i dress up.   why is the reason i feel more relaxed and free and Happy, i see what real woman do though to look pretty and the cost of it.  when i dress up its like my male side is not even there and i am dressing up like a female should and there is no stopping, its like i am female and i am dressing up like one. when all done i look in mirror and see a different person and my attitude is different. i look like a female and have a body like one. i am a 28waist and thin build.  when i do dress up i do feel scared about it that my wife will catch me or my daughter or son will. but my wife has seen me dressing up either putting on a dress or nylons and doing my make up. sad thing is that i cant share it with her and be 2 females talking and having a good time. getting to know my fem side and enjoying my fem side with her.   good thing is that my wife lets me dress up and be Me for as long as i can. never went out in public.   i did but i had my male cloths over my female cloths to go to a transgender meeting in Cheectawaga N.Y, all i had to do is put on perfume and make up, take off my male cloths in truck and head into the meeting place. ladies were so welcoming, i had a blast of a time. sad thing is i forgot the name of the group and time and place.   for know all i do is when i can play dress up and let Lucinda out i do.   i do under dress allot and its nice but not as nice as just showing my true ME.

You sound a lot like me. I love the look and sensation of the clothes.

Sounds like your on your way to becoming a full time girl. If your wife and her sidter know and give you clothes to wear, you should escalate your dressing to a more permanent or everyday thing. The more you dress as a girl the more girlie you become. Most guys only wish they had someone to help them be a girl, but you have 2 girls that help you. Use them to you advantage as long as you can. Genetic girls our the best to learn from.

to Cindy well said, if i had my dream of 2 woman knowing my secret to dress up i would ask them to help me with make up and show me more on how to look more feminine, teach me how to apply cover up, foundation, mascara,what color nylons to match dress. what looks good. go shopping with them and see different styles of dresses, skirts. what type of eye shadow to buy. have them buy them for me.   i would be more dressed up feminine every day i can

Without sounding deprecating, patronising etc to those who dream of being a full-time gal, I do not share that wish. As I've previously said, I often dress just as a 'neck-down' gal: it's the delicious feeling of lingerie, hose and dresses that I've always loved. It's a sexual experience, some may say fetishistic.

Having two understanding women: I do realise how truly gifted I am. My sis in law found out when she stayed over one time: hanging her clothes in the closet she remarked to my wife about the dresses hanging there: not her size! The truth, as they say, came out! And yes, some of her old dresses now hang there too! Some may say an odd relationship: I'm happy to discuss via pm.

xx