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Hi, I recently went to the YWCA in St Paul, MN, because they have a swimming pool and signed up for a membership. Being a new member, the gal that signed me up had to take me on a tour. We started out on a tour of all of the exercise equipment and then moved on to the swimming tour. She took me up a flight of stairs where at the top was a sign. 'Men's locker room to left, women's locker room to the right.
She proceeded to give me a tour of the women's locker room, shower facilities, and pool access. During the tour through the locker room, there were several women in various stages of undress that I said to. They all said back.
When I got home, I reserved an appointment for an open swim at 2 pm for 5 days. Since then I have kept 5 appointments and booked more. My experience of the first 5 days was awesome. I was totally accepted as a female, chatted with undressing/dressing women all while wearing just a bra. One time I was sitting on the bench with no panties but, bra. 8 ft away an older came in from swimming and proceeded to undress in front of me. At the time I was applying lotion to my naked bottom. When she was fully naked I asked her if she would apply lotion to her body. So, there we sit swapping lotion back and forth while she is naked. I no longer need to ask myself "do I pass as a woman".
Very awesome Denise! That is very validating of your true self!
So you were sat there with your naughty bits dangling and no one said anything?
Do you identify as female, and looking to transition? If not should you have been in the female changing rooms?
Am I the only one uncomfortable with this?
