All about the sex

I believe that we all have different feelings about dressing up. I feel better about me, more confident. I also feel a bit sexual when I am Rochelle. I dream of having a man want me as a woman. I would never judge you for the way you feel. Hugs Rochelle.

Dressing started off sexual for me. It's since evolved, though. Sometimes it's still a turn-on, but mostly it's just comfortable and relaxing now.

Hey Lynn, welcome to the club. I've been doing this for a long time and it still turns me on and most of all the one thing we don't do here is judge, we get enough of that every where else. Consider this your safe haven and please feel free to talk and ask questions, that's why we're ALL here. Take care, Heather.

Hi Lynn, first and foremost, welcome. The one thing you won't find here is judgment.

Dressing started as sexual for me as well. It changed over time, I wanted it to change. I wanted dressing to be more than sex and it has.  My dressing has become a way to express myself, a side of me that doesn't always  get out.

Jillian

I would like to  echo what the other ladies said. For me its partially about being sexual, putting on all the different kinds of laungierie and such can make you feel sexy especially when everything comes together when im in full femme mode.  Even to the point that me and my SO were intimate and it was amazing for both of us for many reasons.

Now not everytime I dress is about that, there are plenty of times its to relax or even go out to shop and enjoy a day out as a woman. There isnt a right or wrong way to express your femininity as long as it makes you happy and your not hurting anyone, anything goes

Cheers,

Vanessa

All you girls pretty well explained it. It was sexual in the beginning and still is at times but the more important role is living and being treated as the woman inside us all. Just relating to people and events in our female roles is different and exciting not to mention natural. Just adore being attractive to men and enjoy there company in a completely different way.

Welcome Lynn! For me there is a sexual component, but not all the time. Sometimes (usually a couple of times a week) I'll just get dressed up, put on a wig and chill out at home in the evening. Sometimes I get frisky and enjoy the feelings of being dressed up if you get my drift. Everyone gets something out of it. As long as you arent hurting anybody, enjoy what you personally get out of it. 🙂

I feel the exact same way as the other ladies.

I feel sexy as Jessica. It's nice to honor the female part as well as the male part

of who I am. No judging from me.

Some xdressers are more into the fetish part of dressing, meaning the more feminine they dress and look the more turned on sexually they become. The word cross dressing is a big title to put everyone into, but anyone that dresses differently that they were born to dress can be categorized as a cross dresser.

I have been dressing as a girl all my life, still a guy underneath but still get a thrill from wearing the silkiest lingerie underneath, but I'm still called a cross dresser, but I dont care what they call me. I know who I am and how I feel and dont want to be put in a certain category at all.

Welcome to the group and remember to have fun.

Hi Lynn ! Welcome to CDH, I feel as most do in this article. I, dress and come out a women and I do accept the fact I am sexual charged at time and at times must control those feeling and act as a mature women that I am. I, have a man that accepts as who I am and enjoy being with him at times. We are who we are and so with that enjoy your feelings and be careful out there its a jungle. Good luck.

Stacey s

Lynn isn't it wonderful to find a place like this and have the opportunity to express your thoughts and not be critically shamed or judged? The one thing I think is so wonderful about that is you hear so many different thoughts on a subject which truly shows our community has a diverse make up and I think that is what makes it so interesting for me! In my case I live full time and it is the real me. While early on there was a definite focus on the sexual side, I eventually realized it was much more than just that! Oh sure I still very much have those desires and love to dress sexy and flirt, but then there is the realities of everyday life. So I hope you continue to discover more about yourself and just enjoy! Life is too short!

Diana

It started out as sexual for me

now it's still a turn on but I'm full time panties, pedicures, camisoles, women's tanks, women's jeans tops WITHOUT MAKE UP AND WIGS.

I also like femme fashions and fits

i love walking in heels but can only do that at home or wear in the car

when  am feeling really sexual I wear matching bra and panties stockings fetish heels garter belts

so there are so many sides to us and so many different types of US

THIS is the place to let it out amongst non judgemental people and get support

WHEN DRESSED THE SEX IS GREAT!

I find I wear what I would want my wife to wear, what I would want to see her in. I personally think I have an inverse relationship of how much I want to dress and how close I feel to her.

So I guess I feel the same as most in this discussion.  There are times that I'm alone and just want to let my feminine side come out. Then there are the times that I'm feeling frisky and want to spend some time with a guy while being feminine.  Just depends on the mood.