Archived Replies To: What's your reason for crossdressing?

I have always dreamed of being a female and I love to dress up like a woman I shop for female clothing to wear and I love to see the look on ladies faces when I tell them the clothes are for me to wear. I love to dress up and be happy with my life

I have no idea why i am a crossdresser.  I have been a cd now for 30 and still don't know why.  But i don't lose sleep over it.  I love my fem side.

For me, crossdressing is not about feeling feminine or masculine.  It is about being me.  I have always considered myself a man and really have no desire to become a woman in all that means.   I simply would like to be able to dress in accordance to my mood and what is both comfortable and feels right.  I am only now beginning to embrace my femininity in balance with my masculinity.  My feelings may change with time, but this is how I feel now.  As to why I have these feelings, I am at a loss.   All that I understand is that they are natural and trying to ignore them serves no purpose other than to create stress and agitation.

MacKenzie

I don't crossdress I dress like the real me, this is who I am. Crossdresser is just another label people like to hang on things they don't understand. Heather

I agree with this statement 100%!!!

i just like thge clothes and te fabrics and dont cxonsider in getting feminine its just me and society has labeled the clothes women

i like felling sexy,  alive . womens clothes fit me better the undergarments are sexy and i like them and teh way i look in them

I'm still getting use to this format, I believe I commented, I agree with your statement 100%!!!

After reading some of the replies I have to say, I don't like the term "cross dresser"  I am who I am. And I dress accordingly! I just wish I could be me full time without the fear of loosing my job!

Shannon, I agree with you. I dress because that's what speaks to me. I wear panties because that's who I am. And wear stockings because it's like air to me (and really hot).  Cross dresser isn't a thing we do, it's who we are. I posted on a different forum that I still grapple with accepting me. Example, I started shaving me legs (I live it) but I was up last night thinking it was a silly thing to do. But then I calm down and remind myself this is what I have wanted for decades. This is who I am. I'm a man who wears panties.  I'm Dani. Just wanted to say I love this site. It's really wonderful.  Like dressing, it's wonderful too.

Best, Dani

First of all when I dress as a woman, I become a woman and I do enjoy that.

Also I make a very attractive woman which is 180 degrees different than when I am a male. No one can who I really am. It's like being a different person.

I enjoy the feel and comfort of women's clothes.

I also get rid of any stress I am feeling and just feel so relaxed.

I do enjoy when I am dressed as and act like a woman.

I just plain out and out enjoy my female personna.

i think my reason is i felt a pull towards women clothes, tough the feel and texture. I love the designs and how i feel in a great pair of nylons. It started so young for me sneaking into my moms room and trying her stuff on and later my older sisters room. That is my story.

Nikki

I felt the same way as you in many aspects

I don’t crossdress I dress like the real me, this is who I am. Crossdresser is just another label people like to hang on things they don’t understand. Heather

I love this!!! I so agree with you! I just dress like me. I hate labels.

I could copy MacKenzie's answer word for word and it would work quite well for me. The only thing to add: I'm sort of playing "catch up" because I denied it to myself for so long. I sometimes need to remind myself to slow down a little bit.