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Megan left me a lovely note this evening, that got me thinking how much more we are than the label ‘transgender’ or ‘crossdresser’.

We are doctors and painters and engineers. Mothers and daughters, lovers and confidants.

We are people, some trapped in the wrong body longing to get out, others with a duality that brings them joy.

We have fears, and triumphs. We experience love and loss. We hope, we dream. We are human.

Who are you, when your identity is not confined to be transgender?

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I am a husband and a father. I am an automotive repair and maintenance professional. I am retired from the Army after 22 years of service. And I am very much enjoying my journey exploring my "duality".

As the journey progress's thoughts and mindsets may change and will certainly evolve. At this point I am sure that I do not desire gender reassignment, although I am pursuing a more feminine appearance.

I would like to express my appreciation for this wonderful cyber space that you have provided so we can come and sit and discuss what ever we choose to. It is a wonderful place filled with wonderful people!

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  1. A father and a truck driver a regular guy .
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Estimable Member     Toms River,New jersey, New Jersey, United States of America
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I am a Dad and retired and a sales consultant !

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I am a father, a grandfather a husband the bread winner who is happy I can take care of my family, even to the point we are now raising our 5 year old grandson.  I am a Army veteran and I am a proud transgender person who is trying my best to make the ones I love happy...

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(@millieteases)
Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
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A husband, a lover, a writer, a friend...

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Estimable Member     San Diego, California, United States of America
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I am a husband, father, grandfather and Navy veteran of the Vietnam era.  I'm also a retired cop from the SoCal area.  I relish in the time allowed me by my wife to dress as Kathy and be able to open up to my feminine-self that I keep repressed on a daily basis.  If only she would be open enough to participate, I'd be in "Crossdreser Heaven".

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Famed Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
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Teri, thank you for your service dear! And thank you for being part of our community - we make this space welcoming together!

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Alexis thank you for your service, to both our country and your loved ones.

*hugs*

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Kathy, dear - thank you for your service to our country, our community and your family.

*hugs*

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I am a husband, father of one teen and one pre-teen, Summa Cum Lauda college graduate, an inactive CPA, former bank officer, former financial analyst, and current Assistant Controller for a manufacturer.

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(@darcy)
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I am a husband, father, grandfather, biker, and IT professional. My male schedule quite full and very busy, especially being an IT professional and when the weathers nice  I'm rolling down the road on my Harley. I schedule in girl time on my pamper days to get Mani/Pedi's massages, facials, etc.

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Husband, proud father of two, friend of many, IT business analyst, self employed, consultant.

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I just love reading your responses ladies! It reinforces the diversity and vastness of who were are! *big hugs*

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(@elaineinpantyhose)
Active Member     Georgia, United States of America
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I am a father of one preteen and divorced.  I served for ten years in the U.S. Navy.  I am a bus driver for an assisted living facility where I help take care of grandpa's and grandma's.  I believe that due to Elaine I can be more empathetic to how these are to be treated.  I also really enjoy the few friends I have that love Elaine.  To be able to tell others what we are feeling without being judged is the best I think, so thank you for this site Vanessa.

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