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My family does not support my crossdressing and don't dress as Melissa around them for this reason.I have a good relationship with them and the crossdressing does not get mentioned anymore.Last time it was mentioned,it turned into a huge argument.Came out 3 years ago finally and was not good,they don't love and accept Melissa which hurts.I know it will take time for them to come to terms if they do this.I will not rush them on this.I have talked to a GLBT counsoler about it and said this may take a therapist like her.I just want them to love and accept Melissa in and put the past behind.My brother has already said he is willing to work things out when it comes up and is the same with my sister.It is going to be different with my parents,they said maybe.What can I do?
I am in a similar situation with my family regarding MacKenzie. I don't know how to begin the conversation. Based on a previous attempt several years ago and my family's more recent comments about lifesyles out of the norm, I do not forsee my family welcoming or accepting MacKenzie. Given how important my family is to me, I wish this was not the case. Right now, I am willing to accept not be open with my family about MacKenzie. As I am still learning how MacKenzie truly fits in who I am, I do not wish to create more uncertainty. Given that I enjoying expressing both my masculinity and femininity from day to day, I am okay withholding MacKenzie. I have my wife's support and acceptance which is much more than I would have thought possible only a few months ago.
Things are starting to change in a good way.My family said they are willing to work things out meeting with this GLBT counsoler.My family is basically saying what they are doing to me is wrong.
2016_relationship advice: Melissa Jaime Dayle original post:
My family does not support my crossdressing and don’t dress as Melissa around them for this reason.I have a good relationship with them and the crossdressing does not get mentioned anymore.Last time it was mentioned,it turned into a huge argument.Came out 3 years ago finally and was not good,they don’t love and accept Melissa which hurts.I know it will take time for them to come to terms if they do this.I will not rush them on this.I have talked to a GLBT counsoler about it and said this may take a therapist like her.I just want them to love and accept Melissa in and put the past behind.My brother has already said he is willing to work things out when it comes up and is the same with my sister.It is going to be different with my parents,they said maybe.What can I do?
