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Hey everyone, just here to introduce myself and a newly dressing lady at home, will be reviewing the site continually for more information and help to make me look more and more passable everyday. Anyone wanna add to the help it will be most welcomed!
Welcome! But keep in mind, blending is sometimes better by far than "passing".
Thank you for the input. As I'm reading more and more, I'm thinking that's probably the better word to have used!
Not a problem! Use the word that best fits what you're trying to accomplish. If you are trying to pass, well, that can be heartbreaking if you get "clocked" or "read"... I would rather blend... not stand out (too much!) and revel in my own existance as I am.
Yes, I think at first "blending" would be a great first step. however if I could eventually "pass" that'd be like the ultimate.
Its getting to the blending part thats the most difficult for me.
Then we shall begin to blend together! I think I've gotten a good chunk of the makeup I'll need to make it work. just need some vocal lessons and walking lessons and I think I'll be okay. 😀
I'm still working on just getting the makeup part right! ????????
Hey Jordan I'm Katie I live like 2 hours from Kansas City 🙂 I'm new to trying to blend also 🙂
Ok, I may not have loads of experience, but one thing is always true... Confidence is key, fear is counterproductive. Be true to yourself, hold your head high, focus less on passing or blending and more on how letting the world see you for you feels. If you feel good, you look good.
Yes I believe confidence is the key. But as Holly G said still working
I'm not perfect! My makeup skills still need work too. But I have a pretty good sense of fashion, or at least what works for me! And all in all, I think I cut a fine figure of a punky/neoclassical lady!
That's my thing too. I have an idea of what style I'd like to put out there, but idk how well I could pull it off since I'm not really that type of person. I think it's more a way I'd like to be but just am not. I hope that all makes sense.
Wow I know my Holly side is WAY more out there than my male self ???? I think it's all part of letting that inner desire out. I'm normally pretty quiet and not outspoken but anyone following me on here knows that I can't keep this side of me in at all now that I have girlfriends to gossip with! ????????????????
Well I know Jordyn is way more aware of being put together at all times and aware of how her figure is appearing to others around her and the vibe she puts out to everyone as far as friendship vs girlfriend vs the "hmmmm he's cute" vibe"; the male me could give a crap about appearance (I do try from time to time but not on an everyday basis) and normally I put out an "unless you're in my inner circle of people which consists of like 4 people be gone with you" attitude. I just can't get over how much of a change in personality I can have just with some cute jeans and a really good bra!
