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I'm very excited to be a part of this whole community. I've probably known that crossdressing was part of my DNA since I was a kid, but I tried to deny it for so long. After years of dabbling and purging and all of the rest, I finally let Bianca be a part of my life a year ago. The difference has just been incredible. I now have the courage to go out and enjoy a day or an evening or a few days as Bianca. And I am now seeing all of the wonderful parts of her personality (her positivity, her openness, her happiness) seep into every part of our shared lives. When life get a little too stressful, some Bianca time just brings my life back into balance.
I am incredibly fortunate to be married to a wonderfully supportive woman. While she doesn't necessarily understand all of this, she has been terrific in helping me discover Bianca. I can't imagine doing it without her.
I'm just looking forward to meeting others and learning from their experiences. I know I have a lot to learn. I just don't know what I still don't know.
So thanks for being so welcoming.
Hello Bianca , Linda Here from Jersey also Welcome
Welcome Bianca
Sounds like some really great things are happening for you.... having a supportive wife has to be a relief... and a big help....happy for you
Stephanie
Hello Bianca, welcome to the site.
Having a supportive partner is a massive bonus and those of us who can say we have such a person in out lives can really provide encouragement for others. Like many others I went through many negative scenarios of outcomes before I told my wife but in the long run I had to be myself and open up to her.
The response was certainly one of shock, mostly because I had been so good at hiding everything but now she's sharing this wild ride. She doesn't fully understand the need but as I've told her, I'm not sure I either. It just is.
Have fun, and remember, your wife is always welcome to have input here too.
Hello Bianca and welcome to the club! Good to hear your wife is supportive ! I am also from New Jersey so welcome again.
Stacey S.
Hello Bianca in the garden state I left NJ some 26 years a go now in FL
