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I'm sorry for taking so long to introduce myself herebut I'm a straight crossdresser that is still in the closet as far as where I live and work. I've been dressing off and on when I could since I was about 5, then when I bought my house I started creating my wardrobe along with all the accessories. In my thirties I tried coming out to two different ex's while I was with them, along with the first one I also tried coming out to what was my best friend and his gf at the time. Well needless to say none of that went any kind of good and none of them will go anywhere near trying to talk to me anymore unless of course I corner them and try to talk to them. Now I'm getting close to my mid 40s and wanting to experience life fully as in being able to go out in public dressed but terrified that I will loose more people that I am close to. Dressing isn't something I do all the time but when I feel the need to dress I also feel trapped and confined to my house so I won't loose anyone I care about. Yes I'm sure most of the ladies here are going through the same situation and I just wish the world wasn't as fearful of a man dressing as a woman as it is, but accepts females dressing as males.
Hi Jessica,
I hear you Jessica. There is a double standard when it comes to dressing in clothing marketed to the opposite sex. Hopefully that will change someday.
I sincerely hope that you get as much enjoyment and emotional fulfillment out of this site as I do. This site has helped me tremendously.
Welcome to CDH!
Steph.
Hi Jessica and welcome to CDH.
Rachel
Hello . Jessica and welcome to the community . We are so happy that you have chosen to join our community and welcome your comments and thoughts .
It's really sad that we are judged by others so negatively , hopethat our community is good for you .
Cookie 😊
Hello Jessica welcome with us
Catherine
Hi Jessica,
Sorry to hear that your Exs would not accept you. And especially your best friend and his GF. Did these people seem open minded? and had you known them for along time? I guess if the answer to the questions is yes we all have to choose carefully when opening up to people. I guess we really don't know until the cat is out of the bag. I wanted to open up to my two children who are adults now and seem quite open minded. but my wife and I thought why do they really need to know at this point in time. I guess what I am saying just like your friend and GF they may seem open minded on things but you never really know. Try not to be discouraged you are going to meet great people who are going to love you for just who you are. As for going out dressed take it slow at first try going for a drive in your car or a walk at night time if you can. build your confidence. slow and easy wins the race you will succeed
Margaret
