Hello ladies!

Hey Evelyn. Many of us on the site-including me!-are in the same boat-uncertain of where our journey will lead. This is a GREAT site to explore the options and ask questions and comment on various things to help figure our exactly what we are looking for in life. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask!
Cynthia

Hi there

Evelyn sometimes I think people get too hung up on labels. In my mind I am a crossdresser, but as crossdressing makes me feel feminine, and I enjoy the sensations of wearing feminine attire, I think that I am somewhere between the binary of make and female, making me trans (across) gender. I don't think anyone is "just" a crossdresser.

In the long run you only need to feel you are Evelyn. Labels are for tinned goods and fine wines.

🙂

Well said Jane & Cynthia.
Who knows the destination? The best part comes once you reach the point where you can enjoy the journey.
Beyond guilt, apprehension and the expectations of others.

Hey Evelyn - new here too so welcome!
I wouldn't worry about the labels for now - I've been trying to understand what I am for decades and I think I'm a little closer in the past couple years. Personally, I see all of us as having a slightly wobbly gender compass that doesn't always point due 'male' so to speak, but oscillates around a lot at different rates and to different extents for all of us. Mine doesn't blip very often but when it does I'm only happy with full-on femulation, others tend to like a little more dress androgyny but more of the time. In my mind, anyone who has an irresistible urge to dress like this MUST have something TG going on, but it doesn't mean we need to permanently transition. It's more important we each find balance and harmony for our own circumstances and motivations. Probably ran on a bit there, but that's me... gabby.. 😉
Nice to meet you (all)..
Katey x

Well said Katey. Evelynn-take some time to browse the member profiles and see if you find someone whose posts/comments/ and profile answers intrigue you-then PM them and see if they're willing to get to know you better. Do that a few times and soon you'll have lots of friends,

Cynthia

You make a good point. I am Evelyn and I feel like Evelyn. Labels dont define us. How we feel and who we are defines us.

welcome to the group Evelyn.

I suppose that until I actually and finally embraced Rosaliy as my true self, I denied that I might be other than straight male.  Along the way I had many revelations about myself and have accept Rosaliy as me.   This has made me a lot happier than I had ever known.   I consider myself transgender and bi as well but those are 'labels' and they do not tell all about me.   Best label I have is my name.

As you proceed along this journey, feel free to talk to any of us here.   We all have thoughts, views and experiences from which you may draw what you need.  Good luck in your journey.

very well said, Katey. you make excellent points and you do seem to have a good idea where you are headed.

Erika - I don't know that I can be called a sissy or a slut but I too enjoy cock and cum.  One of those many revelations I mentioned above.  The most shocking revelation was when I realized that I wanted to be the other woman to my now x-wife's boyfriend.  That experience is another story altogether.

Hi Evelyn,

It sounds from your question, like you're struggling with the same questions as me and it's a question I don't seem to be able to find the answer to. I only admitted my crossdressing to myself about a year ago and came out to my wife shortly after although it had been there on and off for much of my life. Initially that seemed to solve a lot of turmoil in my head as she was so understanding and supportive, but before too long further questions started appearing in my head such as, where is this all going and am I really going to end up transitioning? which I find quite scary but exciting too but it worries me as I don't know how to tell the rest of the family.

So you're not alone in these questions and as yet I don't know where to go to find help in finding the answers, all I do know is the more I dress the less I want to return to my male self .

Sophie. xx

Amen Sophie! I've admitted my crossdressing a long time OK but only recently accepted that it was an integral part of who I am.  I too know not which path I'll take but we'll walk that road together. Looking forward to getting to know you better!

Cynthia

Hi Evelyn welcome with us

Catherine

That was a great response... well said
Stephanie