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Hello,
I am somewhat new to cd and I have never completely transformed though I have thought about it many times. Recently I got an offer to be completely transformed but here's the problem: I have never fully crossdressed before and when I do crossdress I feel extreme shame. I am afraid accepting this offer might make me feel horrible and depressed. I don't know if I could look my parents in the eyes. I know this is irrational and I shouldn't feel this way but I just do. What do y'all think I should do? Also I can't receive massages over this site so if you'd like to contact me email: hailycutie4@gmail.com thank you soooo much.
Hi Haily I'm Heather, I'm 52 and I've been dressing since I was 11. Take it from an old girl who nearly drove herself crazy for a couple of decades, accept what you are and enjoy this part of yourself.You have nothing to be ashamed of, all you are doing is exploring your feminine side, which I honestly think if more men did we'd probably have a lot more peace and harmony in this world. As for your parents and I speak as a father of four kids, their love for you is unquestionable, they will love you no matter what! So go to your friend and be Haily and relax and enjoy it. Think of this as a gift, you get to see the world through the eyes of a man and a woman and it's your job to put the best of both together to make a really good person.Okay so go and have fun and sen me a note to let me know how it goes.Take care your new friend Heather.
Haily,
Heather is correct. The transformation you are talking about is a blessing, & temporary. The guilt you feel is just because society has tuned us in such a way that if a man wearsa dress or stockings its bad....I strongly disagree. My kilt is a skirt....sorry todissapoint all the "Manly men" that calle a CDer a freak yet wear a kilt....its the same thing with a fancy name.
Good luck with your decision.
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