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Just year average married CD. Have been in the closet for 30+ years. Only been open to friends found on the various CD sites. I am very active on flickr.
I have been fully dressing and going out in public for 5-7 years. I love to go shopping or walk around malls and taking pictures.
As I said I have been in the closet until just three months ago. My wife found all my things. She said she is totally against, she said she married a man not a woman. We have been working though it and she has been a lot more supportive than I thought she would. I wear a few things to bed and additional items I can wear when she is not around. She does not like me going out in public at all.
So for now I am staying in hoping she will be more receptive as time goes by.
Welcome Tammy To CDH.
I really hope things work out for you.
Hi Tammy welcome with us
Catherine
Thank you girls for the welcome and supportive comments. I hope to find some gurls here that are in or have been in the same situation I am in and maybe get some pointers from them on what worked or did not work for them.
I know each situation is different but it is all the same to us in the end. We want to keep dressing and doing things just like we did before our wives found out. And have hope they will join in and support us.
For me is was so excited she did not leave that I moved to fast. I asked for too much too soon. She understood I could not stop. To save the marriage she knew she had to give me something. So we set some limits and have an understand for now. I hope she excepts more in the future.
Thanks again.
Tammy
Hello Tammy,
Welcome to our community I hope with time, your wife will come to be very supportive. Just remember, this part of you was a shock to her, and it will take some time to process. I'm glad you found our little peace of Heaven.
Cookie 🙂
Hi Tammy, and welcome to CDH!
Hi Tammy and welcome to CDH.
Rachel
2016_introductions new members: Tammy Terrain original post:
Just year average married CD. Have been in the closet for 30+ years. Only been open to friends found on the various CD sites. I am very active on flickr.
I have been fully dressing and going out in public for 5-7 years. I love to go shopping or walk around malls and taking pictures.
As I said I have been in the closet until just three months ago. My wife found all my things. She said she is totally against, she said she married a man not a woman. We have been working though it and she has been a lot more supportive than I thought she would. I wear a few things to bed and additional items I can wear when she is not around. She does not like me going out in public at all.
So for now I am staying in hoping she will be more receptive as time goes by.