Hi All

Hi Hayley and welcome!  This site is a great resource to connect with others who are in very similar situations.  It's tough to be in a relationship where your SO doesn't know your true feelings.  I (and many others on here) have been in that situation and it's incredibly difficult to say the least.

I hope that in time you will be able to open a line of communication with your wife, but until then know you are among friends here!  The wonderful ladies on here are incredibly supportive and friendly and all of us are glad to lend a friendly ear whenever needed.  Glad you're here!

<3  Lauren

2016_introductions new members: Hayley Renee Deaver original post: 

So my name is Hayley Renee and I am transgender. Whew there I said it now if only I had the courage to carry it forward in public.

A little about me ..,I am 53(about 38 in girl years). Married but she doesn’t know and would not understand or accept. I have followed the usual process since I was at least  15 when I tried on a friends sisters bikini and I liked it  but tried to deny with many binges and purges.

Through site like these and understandnig my feelings I realized I am way more girl than boy. I prefer panties and bras to underwear and tshirts…dresses and skirts  to pants……

Just a start so feel free to ask me a question or send me a message