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Hi everyone, I'm Denise, from San Antonio, TX. I was invited here by my dear friend Codille, who've I've known for a few years now. I'm a full time "transsexual" *friggin medical term I very much dislike* but I really prefer to just be thought of and referred to as a woman. I started coming out to select family/friends in 2008 and made the jump to full-time and "out" to everyone in 2010. Today, as a full time woman, I find life to be 1000 times harder than ever before, but I'm 1000 times happier. When it comes down to it, isn't being happy in life really the most important thing?
Now, to be honest with y'all, I never thought I'd ever join a CD group, as for me years ago, cross-dressing was a way for me to further explore myself and come to terms with "who" I was. Since I moved past what I thought was "just a stage" of what I later learned to be an important path in my transition I figured I had absolutely nothing in common with those who choose (for multitudes of highly individual personal reasons) not to take the path to full time womanhood. Honestly, I'm still not sure about the CD lifestyle, so I figured I'd give this place a chance, after all, I figured my friend wouldn't be steering me wrong to invite me-and in respect to her I figured I show her some support by giving it a chance. So, I'm willing to learn from y'all, try to open my sometimes closed mind a bit further. IF, I can help in any way I'd be glad to. IF you have any questions I may be able to help with I'm very happy to try. I will say, some of the articles I've seen while exploring here today have been a bit impressive! Give me a chance and I'll do the same in return. Ohhhh, one more thing, and I really hope I'm wrong in thinking this or saying it, but I AM NOT interested in any type of sexual contact, communications or anything of the sort. You want a friend, great, something more, keep searching and not stopping here. Thanks, I sure hope I've not offended anyone here with anything I've said.
Hi Denise.
Welcome to your new home.away from.home.
Codille won't steer you wrong. Explore the the site, many great threads. Chime in if/where youcan. We all have something to share, and learn from one another.
Point well taken, if you ( or anyone else feels that You are being 'hit on', report it to us). This is a secure site that welcomes all in a safe and friendly environment.
Claudia
Hi Denise,welcome to the site and it is good to hear from a Texas girl!
Welcome to the site Denise
I may need your help with questions, I have been a CD for years, but recently reading others stories who are transitioning to a Full time woman has gotten me thinking I have a lot in common with them. At my age, 49 in Dec. is it getting late in life.
Anyway, welcome to the club..haha
Love,
Stephanie
This is My Lady Denise, pulls no punches and tells it how it is. Why the invite to Denise, I think there is a thing or two around here that we can all learn, even her. Honestly, she is the opposite of me when it comes to the personal transitioning view. Something I totally respect and Denise knows like Vanessa the process and conviction it takes to fully make the change, if that is where your Journey is taking you. Lastly, she is one of the few women in this world that know all of me and trust with my being, she knows my wife, heck they missed lunch 2 weeks ago in San Antonio due to mismatched schedules.
So My Lady Denise, welcome to a Haven for the CD/TG. I think you will make a difference to a lot of woman here like you have to me.
Love,
Codille
Denise,
So glad to have you join us here. If you're a friend of Codille, then I consider you a friend as well. I like the way you say exactly what you're thinking. I'm still uncertain of my ultimate destination-right now I feel like I'm kind of a blend-between where you are and where Codille is. I am exploring my feelings and thoughts and this site has really helped me do so. I have made many good friends here who I have helped at the same time they have helped me. I look forward to hearing your insights and thoughts on the various subject that come up her.
Again Welcome!
Cynthia
Ask me anything Stephanie, be happy to help in any way I can! 🙂
Your friendship and trust has always meant the world to me Codille, thank you for that. I only hope that I may be able to contribute something here. I'm also here to learn from y'all as well. <3
Thank you Cynthia. As you get to know me you'll see I speak my mind-most of the time trying to be civil and recognizing that everyone has there own opinions about things.......and who's to say someone is wrong in their thinking? Feel free to ask me about anything, if I have personal experiences to share about the matter I will. The most important thing I think, is to remember that while we all have many many things in common on this thing we call transitioning, the ultimate steps to take are yours and yours alone. Many are available to offer suggestions and encouragement, pick one up when they stumble (we all do) and share our experiences that will hopefully make it a bit easier for those following the same footsteps we took not so long ago. I'm pleased to meet you.
Thank you Claudia.
Ohhhh....and Stephanie, I didn't fully start my transition until age 50 and today at 56 I'm still not done! LOL I don't think we're ever ~done~ They say the "first-step" is the hardest, don't be fooled hun.....they're all hard but with support and a desire to know and show who you really are, it's never to late to start. Best wishes.......
Hi Denise,
Good to meet you and welcome gal!
Look forward to getting to know you better.Remember were there for you whenever you wish to let your hair down.
HugsXX
Celine
Thanks Celine. Heck hun, my hair is down....except during these summers here in south Texas, then it's pulled up......so friggin hot/humid! LOL Nice to meet you.
Denise,
Stumble. I NEVER remember you stumbling or the very very late night conversations coast to coast on chat.... we were a bunch of basket cases when we first met, we've come a long way lady!!! By the way I think I am owed a bigger castle by now!!!! LOL
I am sure God has a few more hurdles to through at us but we've done ok together. Now, as I look here we have 720 other ladies here to help pick us up!
Hugs,
Codille
OK my dear Princess *you've been duly re-dubbed 😉 * As you well know, I know because I taught you well........newer, fancier, better equipped Castles are not "given-away" so easily......they must be earned...taken by force if needed! LMAO! Ohhhhh, those were some fun times for sure. It seems we have both progressed, traveled down different roads but always in view with each other, I'm happy for that! IF I ever stumbled *not saying I have* it's because you had soooooo many squirrels in that damned Keep you insisted was a Castle.....and their nuts just kept falling all over the place....LOL
