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Just a quick note, I will share more in near future. I am in the 50s. Married man. Told my wife about my femme side years ago. I have purged many times, sometimes for months. Never never again. I’ve had that urge to crossdress recently. I bought nylons, pantyhoses; feel so good. It is me. I am back. Just found CDH community. Thanks, I no longer feel alone. Love and kisses. Deb.
Good to have you here Deb, I dressed often in college. After college I discarded or donated most of my clothes except for pantyhose which I still wore all the time. I began my dressing with stockings and pantyhose at age 4 and never gave them up.
After college I figured I was done dressing fully femme. It was fun but it was time to move on to other things. I began dressing again about 4 years age when my wife was watching a show on drag queens and asked me why I don't dress up like that anymore. I still kept a few items of clothing that I liked best but hadn't worn in so long.
I put them on. (Funny how they shrunk so much just siting in storage...lol). I was surprised at how well I could walk in the heels after not wearing them for so long. I walked out and showed my wife. She got a kick out of it and thought I should dress up again but I needed some new clothes. We went out and got some and I hooked up with a local group. It's fun doing it again. It's different but still very enjoyable.
Hi Deb and Welcome to CDH you will enjoy it here with all the friendly girls and many great articles.
Stacey s
Welcome Deb, did u have to come out to your wife again? I did this year and it has been so nice not to have to hide my fem side anymore. Wife even introduced the fem me to her best friend!
Hi Deb. Welcome to CDH.
Hi Deb. I've always regretted purges in the past and vowed never to do it again. We are of similar ages. I CD secretly since wife would not understand. Not yet anyway. It does feel so good to CD, I know! Welcome.
Welcome Deb...similar issues here! Love, Lorrie
Hi Patty,
Thanks for sharing.
I purged many times, not always for the same reason. CD was probably something to fix at that time. I have realized that CD is only a way to express an important part of my true self.
Talking of pantyhose, I was quite surprised too to see how it can shrink over time.
Hugs.
Deb
Hi Stacey,
Thanks for welcoming. I took my time before enrolling CDH; I am not much networking on web. I appreciated the quality of the site and I got a feeling that I would be welcomed.
Hugs
Deb
Hi Julie,
I did not come out again to my wife. My wife is rather conventional. I do love her and I respect her. I do not fully CD from head to toe. I am more toe to hips or so mainly because I strong male attributes in the upper part. I admire the ones of you who CD completely; it takes skills, time,.... but you get the reward!
Hugs
Deb
Hi Steph,
I understand you. Even if we share similarities among us, each case is particular. Take your time. You will find your way.
Hugs
Deb
Hi Lorrie,
Thanks for welcoming me!
Hugs
Deb
Hello Deb welcome with us
Catherine
Hi Deb and welcome to CDH.
Rachel
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Just a quick note, I will share more in near future. I am in the 50s. Married man. Told my wife about my femme side years ago. I have purged many times, sometimes for months. Never never again. I’ve had that urge to crossdress recently. I bought nylons, pantyhoses; feel so good. It is me. I am back. Just found CDH community. Thanks, I no longer feel alone. Love and kisses. Deb.