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Hey all! I've filled out my profile pretty well so I won't be too redundant here. I'm in my late 30s, started getting the urge to cross dress in my early teens, and started buying lingerie in my early 20s. I've been dressing full-time for a little over two months (Nov 2015). Everything has been going great, but I'm struggling with the loss of my marriage over a year ago and great girlfriend from this past year as of late November. I'm finally free to be me but have suddenly hit a wall of feelings of "what the hell am I doing?!" and "who am I?" and "how will I ever find love again?". So, I wanted to find a community of people who know what I'm going through and can offer some encouragement and some advice and help bolster my confidence to continue being me.
Thanks for reading!
Love, Emily
Hi Emily and Welcome to CDH.
Rachel
Hi Emily nice to meet you I am also from California I hope you meet many friends here we are a very good support group for those who need it. If you want to talk you can message me or find the chat room. Take care love Bethany
Hiya Emily, welcome to CDH! We’re so happy to have you with us. Feel free to browse the Forum and all the articles that are here. Of course, commenting and sharing of your experiences and perspectives are greatly encouraged, we all learn from and support each other. Come to the Chat room sometime, don’t be shy, just jump right in and say HI, you’ll be amazed with the support you get. Ask anything, we’re help to help and support, again, welcome to CDH! Let me know if I can be of help with anything for you.
Hi Emily,
I read your post. I am in similar transition as you just a little behind like a month or so. I am also in divorce state, not yet finished after 3 years. I too found the ability to find myself during the time I was alone and able to explore freely. We have much in common.
Regarding your worries about love. Ive learned to let that pass from my mind as I focus on loving myself. I finally realized that without a solid love for self, relationships simply dont work. I feel that, when we finally receive our selves in whole and accept who we are, then we shine like the brightest stars in the darkness of space. We are the light that draws others to us, and we no longer will need to seek, but to receive the love of others.
I hope you are well, and that this message brings you joy and hope as you also learn about yourself.
Dani, in California
Hi Emily Welcome with us
Catherine
