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Hi!

I'm new to the site (duh!) I am a 52 years young trans woman who recently came out to my wife. She has been amazing and supportive (though not without a lot of mixed emotions as well.) My story is a lot like the rest, knew at a young age, thought all boys wanted to be girls, was directed by my parents to stop being girly and in my desire to please them I did my best. Some 40 years later, wondering why I was just miserable with my life (which by all accounts should have been happy happy happy) and carried this horrible secret that I never shared. A couple years ago I was reading a transgirl's testimony and all the pieces fell into place with a loud BANG! Holy crap! I'm trans! I was so happy to have a name that fit with how I felt and suddenly I wasn't alone in the world. There were other people like me. Yay! A feeling of massive relief and finally seeing all the behaviors and thoughts of my life make sense. Then, here comes the dysphoria more powerful than ever. I finally couldn't take it anymore and told my wife. She didn't leave, didn't judge, didn't do any of the things I feared but instead has made me feel loved and accepted. I'm out to a few friends now and things are going well. Its not all peaches and cream but my life took a very sudden turn for the better!

Anyway, now I am learning how to "girl" and found this site so here I am!

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Estimable Member     Ft. Lauderdale, Florida, United States of America
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Hi Dani,

Welcome to CDH.

Hope you find us a great source of advice and friendship.

Hugs,

Samantha

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Thanks Samantha!

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Honorable Member     Philly burbs, PA, United States of America
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From one new member to another, welcome Dani. Congrats on finding yourself. The lades here are wonderful, kind, and loving.

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Hello Dani,

Welcome to CDH. You're going to love it.

Hugs and kisses
<3 Victoria

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So many of us have experienced that too Dani so youre not alone sis.

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Hi Dani and welcome to CDH.

 

Rachel

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Hi Dani and welcome!  Great to read you've not only found yourself, but that you have a wife that is understanding and accepting!  You'll love it here, this site is absolutely filled with a great group of gals to meet and chat with.  Glad you're here with us!

<3  Lauren

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Hi Dani welcome with us
Catherine

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2016_introductions new members: Dani original post: 

Hi!

I’m new to the site (duh!) I am a 52 years young trans woman who recently came out to my wife. She has been amazing and supportive (though not without a lot of mixed emotions as well.) My story is a lot like the rest, knew at a young age, thought all boys wanted to be girls, was directed by my parents to stop being girly and in my desire to please them I did my best. Some 40 years later, wondering why I was just miserable with my life (which by all accounts should have been happy happy happy) and carried this horrible secret that I never shared. A couple years ago I was reading a transgirl’s testimony and all the pieces fell into place with a loud BANG! Holy crap! I’m trans! I was so happy to have a name that fit with how I felt and suddenly I wasn’t alone in the world. There were other people like me. Yay! A feeling of massive relief and finally seeing all the behaviors and thoughts of my life make sense. Then, here comes the dysphoria more powerful than ever. I finally couldn’t take it anymore and told my wife. She didn’t leave, didn’t judge, didn’t do any of the things I feared but instead has made me feel loved and accepted. I’m out to a few friends now and things are going well. Its not all peaches and cream but my life took a very sudden turn for the better!

Anyway, now I am learning how to “girl” and found this site so here I am!

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