How Do You Personally Describe Your Gender?

Your right girl,  when someone says your wearing women's clothing I say No this is clothing that I bought and it's mine not something stolen.  I can't comprehend the small minded people that judge everyone.

Hi Sam

I keep it simple. I know I am male, and heterosexual. I totally get why wanting to cross dress calls this into question but I know what I am ?

No offence to those who do feel trapped in the wrong body, or homosexual, bisexual, pansexual etc, totally agree it is an individuals choice on how they identify,  and their sexual choices, live and let live.

I am simply a man who loves all things feminine and want to experience all the wonderful things which are traditionally denied to us but totally acceptable for women to do. Different hairstyles, wigs, make up, skincare, being hairless, much better clothing choices and fabrics, accessories, jewellery, wonderful choices in footwear, letting my  hidden feminine side out to flourish giving a more calm balanced personality.

A male heterosexual in a dress, wig, heels, make up, gorgeous smooth skin, why not?

I know people perhaps have more of a problem with it if I can’t be pidgeonholed into a category ( he must be transgender, homosexual, transsexual etc) but I know what I am and refuse to be labelled as something I am not.

Sorry if my simple assertion offends anyone, but it’s me! I know, I’m not in denial,  I’m me!

❤️B

Hi Sam what a great subject. Ive been a crossdresser most of my life and still consider me as that . I have never and never will have the wants of a man in my bed . I consider myself a Lesbian trapped in a mans body (HA HA) . I love my wife of 37 years and wouldn't trade our friendship love and girlfriendship for anything in the world . And don't get me  wrong nothing against you girls that like your men friendship in the bedroom . That's just not for me . I just love dressing up as a women in every way especially when wife helps teach me in the womanly ways and she gets crazy sometimes using pads and Tampons wow anyway . But dressing as a woman is like my wife says my attitude changes to a more peaceful person that she likes as well even more some times than hubby .But no wants to go any farther than crossdressing as my wifes girlyfriend. Hugs to all.

Stephanie Bass

Hi Sam i am a transvestite i wear womens clothes 24/7. I have been married twice trying to deny my sexuality but gave up trying to figure it out. I was picked up by a gay man when i was 15 years old and quickly realised that yes this was the real me but like an awful lot of men of my era homosexuals were really scorned so tried to bury it. Now i live alone i can do what i have always wanted and thats to dress as a woman and behave as a woman. I now have an extensive wardrobe of shoes, dresses , Skirts and blouses plus all the accesseries and make up. I have had a homosexual lover for the last 11 years and we are so happy.

Brianne

Gender wise, I am male still with my dangly bits but have had, it appears, a feminine animus all of my life. In my later years I got so tired of apologising for my assigned gender... so very tired and angry for all of the grief my gender has/does cause! I found myself wishing, nay, hoping something would happen to bring on a complete change for me... and it did... in a way I never expected but a way I now thank with my whole heart! A traumatic brain injury...
Not only did it give pause and focus my mind on me but I’m sure something retired itself... I’m smiling as I write this ‘cos it smacks of wishful thinking... doesn’t it?
However, Harriet was born January 2017 before morphing into Polly. Harriet was the persona of what one would describe as one’s favourite aunt but by morphing into Polly she has become the me who I have longed to be. I’m not the most feminine looking women as I’m sure you would agree but my feeling of femininity is strong and Polly has a wicked sense of fun and humour. I love Polly and my animus has an equilibrium that’s been denied over the years. My wife always comments that when I’m dressed en femme she sees a sparkle in my eyes that’s not there otherwise.
Returning to the question however, how does one describe exactly what gender one is? Translesbian (heterosexuality is strong in this one), transfeminine was used by another Sister here, transsexual (if I have the requisite surgeries), even ‘lipstick lesbian’ somehow feels right. Sorry to leave you as undecided as before but that’s the nature of this particular beast...

From my heart xxx Polly