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<u>Miranda</u>
Oh, wonder!
How many goodly creatures are there here!
How beauteous mankind is! O brave new world,
That has such people in ’t!
--Wm. Shakespeare <i class="">The Tempest</i>, Act V Scene
I would like to thank the several of you who’ve reached out already to welcome me, including those who have sent friendship requests. I am really very grateful.
Like Miranda, perhaps, I’m also somewhat anxious. I’ve just jumped into the deep end of the pool, as it were, after nearly fifty years of my cross dressing and gender journey having been a private matter. The only other person who knows about Erica is my wife of over thirty-four years, with whom I shared it before we became engaged. While she has never been anything but supportive – and even indulges <i class="">me</i> now and again – it’s been difficult for her to participate for a variety of reasons.
I joined Crossdresser Heaven because I was attracted by both the sensitivity and the candor of the conversation. Frankly, I realized that I needed others with whom I could share. As I’ve grown older, my female side has become more important as well as more fluid for me, and I look forward to learning how others in the community have coped and made this dual sort of life work for them.
I am only online a couple of times a week, so please be patient if I don’t respond right away.
Kind regards,
Erica B.
Erica you've come to just the right site for what you seek. As we get older I think we finally find the comfort within to confront who we are, accept who we are and begin to enjoy who we are.
Supportive partners are wonderful but, as my wife often admits, despite all their best intentions they don't really know how we feel about ourselves. That's where talking to friends like we can do here at CDH can be a wonderful thing.
I keep walking that challenging road of a little bit of both in my life - femme when I so choose and all blokey when that too is needed. It's a manageable path and one that can still be a happy one.
Welcome again
Jane
<p>Erica-I echo Jane's points-I started here three to four months ago and fell i nn love with the site. It feels like home and I can truly say anything that's on my mind and feel the love and support from the members. As you will learn reading my profile,posts and comments and articles. I am a year old closeted crossdresser who feels that the status quo is no longer adequate. Cynthia needs to get out and see the world around her and BE seen by he world!Whether that eventually leads to partial or full transition is still to be determined! but I'm gonna enjoy the journey wherever it leads. As I've said elewhere, browse the member pages/profile rad the articles-you'll get a lot of great info!</p>
Thanks, Jane. And you're right. It's all about balance. I'm looking forward to having some time to participate. Male me has so little time as it is, and I have even less. But we persevere.
Best,
Erica
Thank you, Cynthia. This is a pretty big leap for me, so I will be easing myself into things. And there's the time factor, but I'll get there.
Erica
