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Hello Ladies,
I'm a long time crossdresser, married and in my fifties, this is my first time out in any type of public setting. I started in my teens, then the desire to dress subsided for a little while in college and shortly there after, but it came back again and again. I went through numerous purges and fighting the reality that I am a crossdresser. I finally told my wife about 8 to 9 years ago. She is great, very understanding and accepting of who I actually am, but she does not participate at all. To this day I still struggle at times accepting this part of me, but for the most part I have accepted that crosdressing is part of me just as much as the color of my eyes. So after all this time why come out in a public setting? I guess I am looking for another outlet and just knowing I am not alone is very helpful. I think I was also inspired by a crossdresser that I saw in the Mall a few weeks ago. She was very passable, but being a crossdresser myself I am sure she was too. I admired her for the courage it took to go out dressed, and thought how I could never be able to do that. Then I realized that at least I could go out on the internet. So here I am. Thanks for all the friend requests.
Tanya
Hello Tanya.
Welcome to CDH, and I hope you'll find amazing friends, and great people to talk to. It's hard finding the confidence to go outside dressed though. I've only done it once, and I was really really scared. I had a friend with me though for support.
Sincerely,
Alexis.
Hi Tanya welcome with us
Catherine
Hi Tanya and welcome to CDH.
Rachel
Hi Tanya, and welcome to CDH.
2016_introductions new members: Tanya original post:
Hello Ladies,
I’m a long time crossdresser, married and in my fifties, this is my first time out in any type of public setting. I started in my teens, then the desire to dress subsided for a little while in college and shortly there after, but it came back again and again. I went through numerous purges and fighting the reality that I am a crossdresser. I finally told my wife about 8 to 9 years ago. She is great, very understanding and accepting of who I actually am, but she does not participate at all. To this day I still struggle at times accepting this part of me, but for the most part I have accepted that crosdressing is part of me just as much as the color of my eyes. So after all this time why come out in a public setting? I guess I am looking for another outlet and just knowing I am not alone is very helpful. I think I was also inspired by a crossdresser that I saw in the Mall a few weeks ago. She was very passable, but being a crossdresser myself I am sure she was too. I admired her for the courage it took to go out dressed, and thought how I could never be able to do that. Then I realized that at least I could go out on the internet. So here I am. Thanks for all the friend requests.
Tanya
