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Mixing of Him and Her

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Baroness
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(@dianas1960)
Reputable Member     South Central, Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Usually Diana and my Drab self have very different likes and activities.  Diana loves to be out shopping and out in public.  My Drab self spends most of his time working out in the yard (warm months) or my Woodworking Shop. 

I am in a DADT relationship and Diana has to sneak to get out.  I retired this past year as did my wife.  As such Diana does not get near enough of her time so some shared time is called for.  Next week is the Woodworking annual show in Indianapolis.  Diana is going for me.  Of course there will be some shopping time before and after.

What kind of activities do others have that mix their two selves.

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Lady
(@leainvancouver)
Joined: 1 year ago

Prominent Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 379

@dianas1960 great question. I try to integrated my male and female parts as much as possible. I wear mostly women’s clothes and present as androgynous. En femme I more clearly present as a woman. I’m a work in progress. I feel both parts are always present but typically one is being expressed more than the other depending on circumstances.

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I only have one self, but that self likes to dress en femme part of the time. I do not really change when I dress. I do tend to be more relaxed about expressing my inner self when dressed, but that inner self is there en home as well. 

I do like to home or walk on the beach en femme, but I do as well en home.

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(@Anonymous 47410)
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Joined: 6 years ago

My male self and my female self are one in the same person. 

 

I am involved in veterans affairs and do so as both my male self and female self.  As a retired engineer, I participate in social activities as my female self, but if it involves a work project, I will generally participate as my male self. 

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Lady
(@ria)
Reputable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

Ria is an early morning girl, en femme for a few hours nearly daily. My drab self appears about mid morning but always underdressed to some degree. It is not the ideal but has worked for decades.

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Baroness
(@dianas1960)
Joined: 9 years ago

Reputable Member     South Central, Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 220

@ria My wife is a late nighter and usually does not get up till 1 in the afternoon.  Most mornings I do spend dressed reading my email and checking out my daily web sites especially CDH.  I usually spend the first two hours of the day then have to go back to drab.

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Lady
(@ria)
Joined: 5 years ago

Reputable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Posts: 330

@dianas1960 well we certainly have similar lifestyles.

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(@Anonymous 47410)
Joined: 6 years ago

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@ria Wow Ria,  your post describes describes my situation almost exactly.  When I read it I almost thought I wrote it.  Morning time and then time to get busy and underdressed as well.

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Lady
(@ria)
Joined: 5 years ago

Reputable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Posts: 330

@stephaniewyo Thanks. I have always believed I was not the only one to journey this way.

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

It is all a matter of finding what works for any given relationship. I feel the key to expanding your options is the education of our spouses as to what dressing is really about for each of us. 

For me, it is just about being a guy in a dress when the mood strikes me. I am not hau, am not transitioning or wanting to dress full time. My wife is aware of all that and knows it is "just clothes" for me and she is fine with the fact I enjoy wearing femme things.

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(@ladymakenzie)
Noble Member     Brighton, Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

There is no separation betweeen my masculine and feminine selves.  I do not percieve there two be different entities. I am me in all my glory, both my femininity and my masculinity.  That being said, there are activities and occasions where I tend to express one more than than other in both outlook and wardrobe.

MacKenzie Alexandra

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Also, to put mixing him and her another way, I have mixed him and her clothing and make up at times. I have done out in a skirt and forms cut otherwise totally male, or male clothes and makeup. It is fun to mix things up a bit.

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