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Hi my name is Kandy. A little background to this story I came out to my fiance about 2 months ago. She was kinda ok with it but she couldn't see me in it. She also wouldn't go shopping for clothes with me at all. And at one point she even told me to pick her or the crossdressing.
But today something amazing happened. I was at work and she said she needed to go shopping and get her some new clothes. I was like ok no problem and didn't think much of it. But when she got back she had a surprise for me. She has bought me two parties of really cute panty thongs.
So today was a huge step for us in my crossdressing. And I feel just so blessed to have someone so wonderful and supportive in my life. To also know I can be myself with out judgment.
-Kandy!
What a wonderful experience Kandy. Your fiancee has given you a wonderful indication that she is accepting that Kandy is part of the person she loves.
Take her gift as an indicvation that she is willing to make concessions from her earlier standpoint. Give her time to move along her own path of acceptance without pressure. Sometimes those early signs put us in a pink fog which clouds our judgement. Don't let the excitement set back the great advance you've both made.
I wish you both all the best. You should give her a big hug, from all of us.
🙂
Ditto to what JAne said! KAndy be sure to take it slowly but view this as a very encouraging sign!
Congratulations! My wife bought me a new bra today.
That's so sweet..if only more of our significant others could be so accepting.. I know its tough on us and and them don't expect overnite success. but it shows us that sometimes it just takes time to understand and adjust to our issues. congrats on your support system.
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2016_personal stories: Anonymous original post:
Hi my name is Kandy. A little background to this story I came out to my fiance about 2 months ago. She was kinda ok with it but she couldn’t see me in it. She also wouldn’t go shopping for clothes with me at all. And at one point she even told me to pick her or the crossdressing.
But today something amazing happened. I was at work and she said she needed to go shopping and get her some new clothes. I was like ok no problem and didn’t think much of it. But when she got back she had a surprise for me. She has bought me two parties of really cute panty thongs.
So today was a huge step for us in my crossdressing. And I feel just so blessed to have someone so wonderful and supportive in my life. To also know I can be myself with out judgment.
-Kandy!
