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My topic got closed. Why?

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Hi there!

I posted this topic here and it got closed for replies. I would like to understand if it's a common thing here on this forum or if I broke any rule I'm not aware of?

https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/forums/topic/i-need-your-opinion-for-this-project/

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I closed the topic pending further information.

Firstly, the third option in your poll makes no sense "I will support against it" with an emoji suggesting it's not a preferred response.

Secondly, your whole survey is based on there being a direct link between crossdressing and sexuality, when no such link exists. There is no need to state: "Show that crossdressing is not exclusively related to Transexualism or Transgenderism and that there are actual heterosexual people who likes to practice it." To use your words, "Transexualism" and "Transgenderism" are not expressions of sexuality, they are gender identities. Some people who identify as 'transsexual' are heterosexual, some homosexual and some bisexual, just like mainstream society. The same applies to those who identify as 'transgender'. It's a way of expressing gender identification and has no link to sexuality.

Thirdly, if you had consulted the Forum rules, as pinned at the top of the topic lists, you would have seen that the tone and content of your post was likely to cause division and offence.

Those are the reasons I closed your post.

All that said, the Site Manager has directed that your poll be reopened.

JaneS
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Firstly, the third option in your poll makes no sense “I will support against it” with an emoji suggesting it’s not a preferred response.

I'm sorry if I was not clear with this option. What I wanted to know was if someone would think my project is offensive and would want to retaliate it somehow.

Secondly, your whole survey is based on there being a direct link between crossdressing and sexuality, when no such link exists. There is no need to state: “Show that crossdressing is not exclusively related to Transexualism or Transgenderism and that there are actual heterosexual people who likes to practice it.”

I'm really sorry for this. I clearly understand this, but the mainstream society don't. I suffered a lot of emotional distress during my entire life because of the mainstream media and mainstream society prejudices and misconceptions. I had to endure a lot of hard things completely alone during my early teens. I was with all this negative load in mind when I posted this poll and didn't noticed it. There is any way to edit the question?

If you have a free time, and don't mind it. I would like to invite you to read my Patreon description of the project and say your opinion about it. I want to fight against misconceptions and prejudices, not generate even more of it.

 

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Hello there!  I looked over your postings and forgive me, but I don't quite understand what all happened here. Anyhow...the issue is closed.   I don't really bother with surveys as I have found that expressing ones opinions on various issues almost always lead to conflict with others doing the same thing. For one, I had enough conflict in this life and want to be left alone now, hence my non-involvement. Specific questions, I will try to answer as honestly as I can, but sacred cows do get stepped upon.

When posing opinions on genetics, psychology of traits, psychiatric views, cause and effect, be damned sure you know what you are talking about and can back it up with references. It is  absolutely certain that certain topics are going to cause an uproar, so I advise staying away from them like the plague. Even professionals don't have a 100% grasp on things as we are all individuals and life experiences play a huge roll in our being able to understand a lot of things. Anyhow, I sincerely apologize if I come off sounding imperious but I have  a wealth of knowledge and experience being a "Roads Scholar"....that is to say....I learned what I learned on the roads of life. I do understand the need to explore what makes us think and act the way we do as well as try to explain what others do like-wise.  The truth is out there....it will take time and effort to track it down. And.....here is #1 from Confuscous......Do not be afraid to ask any question....even if you don't get a good re-action for it is better to ask and appear stupid than to not ask and stay stupid.  Questions and answers are the building blocks to enlightenment.  Any philosophies or questions you have....ask me...I am not going to be offended or offer up arguments.....just what I have experienced and its outcome.......yours to keep or forget. I have been thru Hell/Heaven and back and grow old and wise.  In this world, too many people have appointed themselves judge and jury over others. Let us examine the coin from both sides and all around the edges to seek enlightenment and happiness within ourselves. We live for ourselves...no-body else. That is why no-body has been able to rule the entire world.    Warmest regards......... Lady Veronica Graunwolf

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