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Just curious.How many crossdressers here have girlfriend's and do you get to dress with them?
Hi Kandy,
You are beautiful as always!
No girlfriend, married almost 17 years. She recently caught me dressing and does not approve unfortunately. sigh. So I have to keep Angela locked up when wife is around. I do underdress for work every day though so I at least feel like Angela. One thing I have learned on my journey is that Angela is ME and she will never go away.
Do you have a GF that you can dress with?
Hugs and kisses, Angela
I think my wife would be most upset if I had a girlfriend, let alone wanting to dress with her.
That said, my wife and I do go out as girlfriends at times.
I am blessed to have a girlfriend who absolutely loves Kandy.She does my makeup and is teaching me to be able to use it.We wear the same dress size so yes,we have about 40 outfits.lol We've only been together for about a year but have known each other for over 20.She knew my ex girlfriend well and she told her I dressed years ago so there was no surprise.I didn't mention it for months,but a few months ago she asked me about it and I reluctantly came clean.Best thing ever! I was awful with makeup and didn't look feminine at all.Im so happy with how she has me looking now and I'm getting better with makeup.
I hope your wife comes around and you can enjoy your femme self
Best of luck
lol. I would bet your wife would be quite upset. I guess I could have asked the question better.
Thit's great about your experience. I've havemy 2nd and 3rd wife buy me lingerie. I don't wear wigs, makeup. But love the feel of lingerie an it's way more fun when spouse is part of it. Now I'm getting devorse soon but not because of my fetish. So I still dressup when I can . Like now I'm alone In a hotel room in black nylons,lacy black top and lacy bra an panties. I gets me so horny. lately I videotape myself in lots of different things I wear and masterbate. Mmm feels so sexy. But glad you are having good times with her. Enjoy it.
My wife and I dress together,sometimes when we go out we dress alike just to see how many comments we get. Surprisingly we have gotten more positive than negative.
Came out honest to my lady from the start. Best thing ever to do. She treats me like the girl in our relationship and it works for both of us. Usually at home I am wearing the dress. As a matter of fact I have more dresses, heels, and nylons than her. She is wonderful with me. Thanks for asking.
Iam married have been for ,6 yrs yes she does know about me from day one butshe more like puts up with it about it we don't dress together or any other things so pretty much I am on my own
MN
I have a wonderful girlfriend who not only lets me dress with her but encourages me to some times. We go out sometimes and have yet to have a bad experience. I hate to say it but i have causes her to dress more feminine then she use to.
I have to agree with Jane. My wife would not be pleased if I had a girlfriend; let alone one who was accepting of MacKenzie. That being said, I shared MacKenzie with my wife within the past year after 9 year of marriage. She surprised me with her acceptance, support, and understanding. We are still learning how this affects our relationship and are taking it step by step.
MacKenzie
good for you Mackenzie!
You are a lucky girl that your wife accepts you for who you are!
My wife has caught me, still loves me, but chooses to ignore the fact that I am Angela too.
I hope one day she will be willing to talk it out, but until then I must stay in the closet. sigh.
Hugs and kisses, Angela
I feel your pain Amber, my wife wants nothing to do with Angela (the real me). She chooses to ignore the whole situation, so I must get en femme on my own. sigh.
Why can't people love us for who we really are? We don't hurt anyone, in fact we are probably the most safe females in the world to be around!
I guess we at least have each other!! Thanks for sharing girlfriend.
Hugs and kisses, Angela
I am a straight man. Being a man is mostly who I am, but sometimes I love to feel like a girl. My late wife was very sweet, but she may or may not have been aware of my love of feminine attire. She knew I liked wearing tights. One thing she didn't know was that I liked other feminine apparel. She acted with me and saw me wear tights in plays. Once during foreplay, she put knee-highs on me. I'll never know if she might have approved of my crossdressing or not. I'd really love to find a woman born as a woman who'd support my liking to wear feminine apparel. It is after all just clothing, or cloth. How wonderful that cloth feels against the flesh.
<p style="text-align: left;">Would love to have someone to share Andrea with and dress with unfortunately if my wife discovered her that would be the end of our marriage so will just have to share Andrea on this brilliant site so glad that I found it.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Hugs Andrea</p>