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signing up for a new sight and having to learn it totally is a downer to me. other wise I have positive events to share. So I will try my best. seems that about this time of year the pink fog rolls in. never in the same intensitivy as or in a usual manor. always different. still in the closet but have being seeing theripasts over the past 3 years. 1st one had a baby and suspended practice and I had to jump ship. no bad terms. second one I enjoy seeing her. kind stopped seeing her due to none progress with the wife. I also have a SIL living with us that has most reacently came out to me as a supporter of me. I told her of Tre ess and showed her the website and a couple other old hang outs that I frequented. she is browsing them but not sure to what extent. I feel I can be open with her but I'm not sure where to draw lines considering the wife is not real open to me. I feel I'm lost in the mater and not what to do. I would love any input
Welcome Carolynn,
I'm glad you're here! Have you found a local transgender support group? Maybe you can make a deal with your wife to get a night every month to go out as Carolynn?
Here are the support groups I've been able to find: https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/about/crossdresser-support-groups/
Hey Carolynn
Don't give up. We're here for you hon.
Hopefully your wife will come to understand how you feel. Hopefully...
You can't change how she feels. Period.
Be honest with yourself and your wife.
I found a double life is to too much to deal With.
. I lIke womens clothes way too much to hide.. and not just on my wife. :^)
As far as to where the line in sand is drawn... take it week by week. Don't push too hard. Yes, bite your tongue foe acceptance
Little by little hon.
Hopefully this helps.
Message me if you need additional support. It wasn't easy for any of us....
Claudia
Thank you Vanessa and Claudia. my theripast has a sup group but its right at the end of my work day so at best I can attend in drab. next option is tri ess but that is 3 hr drive in Orlando fl. witch I would love to do. I am ready to contact them and use the links on ther web site to get a wig and make over.like I said I do have a supportive SIL but she will not defi her sister. I am not asking her to but am learning those bounderies
I'm in a new era of growth its kinda interesting
