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Hi I have a sister and she is always being negative about me socially transitioning never said anything supportive always say ing negative things trying to turn family members against me
Stuff like that, all it does is depict their low quality of character.
When I was still with the wife, I occasionally made comments that could be misinterpreted as me making fun of someone's lifestyle which she took too seriously with a long explanation about the great importance of accepting others for who they are. Sometimes I had to stop her at the beginning of those "lectures" to reply, "Stop. Yes I know that. You've said it before. It doesn't mean that they need to be as obnoxious as they are right now."
Well when the time came when she found out that I like women's swimsuits, her true colors showed....she was completely non-accepting of that and left me. Again, it's a depiction of their quality of character.
Hi Cara,
Sarcasm and negativity is used when people are unable to communicate their true thoughts. This happens when they are confronted with something that makes them uncomfortable. The important thing is to remember it's not about them and their misguided words. When you hear a negative comment say to yourself, it's a shame this person just doesn't get it. Your job is to not allow them to steal any of your power to be happy. Your in control not them.
Good luck
Dana 💋 ❤️
