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So my wife and I have had some sexual adventures with others. Recently I’ve found myself not wanting to be with her, but rather to be with another man. Never been this certain about something, my body is telling me for sure I’m not the man she wants.
She knew about my desire to CD when we met but didn’t want to see it happen. She also feels sharing me with someone else is not staying faithful. I love her but also have a need to be with other men.
fyi this caused my first divorce and I don’t want it to be the cause of my second. Since we don’t have the best relationship, any tips on how to broach this as an important subject moving forward?
Thanks fellow friends!
Danielle,
In my experience this post is the sort that will net you advice to seek personal and couples counseling in order to work through these issues.
And that’s my advice to you.
Hugs & kisses,
W.
Wow, this is the worst thread title ever. You don't desire your wife, and you call her frigid???
Yes, you are in serious need of professional help, not internet advice. Based on your limited post I don't see how this relationship can be saved, but maybe a professional can, or at least minimize the hurt you will be causing.
Sorry, I do not mean to be harsh, but you need help beyond a CD forum.
Please help me understand. You have the need to be sexual with a man right? And that caused you a divorce.
Then you got married again and both of you have had flings.
Now, Why would you marry a woman who loves you knowing that you are interested in males?
I think that is extremely selfish and disrespectful to your partner.
You need to get your toughts together and do what is right. I agree with the other sisters in trying counseling but please don't disrespect her anymore and let her go.
I don't know how the dynamic with you guys is but she doesn't deserve to be called frigid. If you can't satisfy her don't call her frigid and find yourself a man.
Thanks everyone for the comments. We have looked at counseling and hits too expensive for us. Yes I desire things but I want my wife involved when I say she’s frigid I mean she gives affection to our daughter and her pets but not me. I just want to be loved and I don’t think she’s the one to give it. If she could be convinced to let me have a bf I would be fine. Any thoughts on how I can ask her?
