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So after 16 years together, my wife has decided that she no longer wants to be in a relationship with me. While this has nothing to do with my cross dressing (it is something I was open about from the very beginning of our relationship) it perhaps has made us drift apart. Even though I hadn't dressed for 5 years it was still part of my personality so while she says it isn't the reason I feel it may have had an impact. It has taken me quite some time to get my emotions in check and return to the reality I'm in. I am still sad and hurt but I also now see what I will get from this and the doors that will open to me once she is gone. Charlotte will become a larger part of my life that I am sure of and that is something I'm holding on to. It's all rather daunting but I intend to survive.
Not really sure why felt the need to share this as it isn't advice or asking for advice but it seemed worth posting.
Love Charlotte XxX .
<p style="text-align: left;">Charlotte, you hang on in there and hang out on here!</p>
Wishing you courage, strength and love.
Laura
I just want to say I am sorry and I know you will make it through this.
Sorry to hear a about your marriage. Causes can be contributed to many factors and you feeling that Charlotte now has the opportunities well that's wonderful. Fulfill your dreams, be who you are and experience your true self. Best to you looking forward.
Stephanie 🌹
Thank you for your kind words
XxX
sorry to hear, glad it was not due to the cross dressing. Look at this way, now you can dress up as you please and hopefully find a supportive participating lady !
This is sort of how I am looking at it now. It is the big positive I'm taking from this whole mess.
Thank you xxx
While I wasn't unhappy I have reached a point where all I want now is for her to be gone so I can get on with my life.
Thinking of you Charlotte. 16 years is a long time. I divorced once a long time ago and even though it may be for the best it still hurts. I hope happiness finds you quickly.
Charlotte we have a saying hear in Scotland,what's for you, won't go by you.Treasure the last 16 years and slowly start to fight through the fog,the pain will be there for a long time, But Charlotte must have her life , she is entitled to it. Py xx.
Charlotte
First, I want to say I'm sorry for the bad turn of events. Statistics say 50% of all marriages end in divorce; but that's no help when you are in that 50% I can only hope that having more Charlotte time gives some compensation for your loss.
Hugs,
Bettylou
I came home one evening walked in and my wife looked at me and said I want a divorce. She said it like it was no big deal and without emotion. I thought she was kidding but said she was serious. Turned out she had been having an affair for 7 months. So our marriage of 15 years was over just like that. It was devastating for me and my kids and all the family. But now 12 years later I am as happy as I can be. Retired, debt free including my home and condo in Florida and never felt better. We did work on co-parenting and that went so well parents at my kids private school had no idea we were divorced years after it happened. We really tried to not use the kids as weapons. I will always love her because she is the mother of our children, but I am not in love with her...if that makes sense. We celebrate everything our kids do together and will be spending this Christmas together with our girls at my place in Kissimmee. And besides I have my walk in closet all to myself and my girly things!
Charlotte as hard as it seems right now there will be happier days ahead, it just takes time.
Hugs,
Carla
Hi Charlotte,
I am so sorry for your loss I am one that views divorce as a sad thing.
However I hate for two people to be miserable.
So I hope this is a new beginning for you and thank you for sharing with us we are here for Hon.
Patty
Charlotte their are going to be ups and downs in every life. Perhaps your marriage coming to an end is a blessing in disguise. Hold on to no bitter feelings regarding your former wife. Instead, embrace the fact that you now have an opportunity to live the life you want, and be the person that will make you happy with your life. - Blessings, with love Teralynn
Sorry to hear that. I'm separated from my wife and I started CDing again (and even going out) immediately. She didn't know.
At the same time I'm depressed and sleep a lot. When all this is said and done a will probably never get in another serious relationship.
Funny thing on sweetest day (midwest mad e up holiday) I texted her. I was in full drag and at a drag show. I felt so weird.
