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While wearing a particular outfit, dress, skirt, etc, have you ever experienced a negative emotional experience? So much so that you link the negative emotions and/or experience to the outfit.
For example, just seeing the dress or outfit instantly triggers a flood of the negative memories of that day and the experiences you had?
One way you ease the pain is to trash or donate the dress or outfit. Sort of an out-of-sight, out-of-mind cure all.
Just curious if I am the only one to ever had this experience?
Several years ago I was going thru a box of old stuff when I came across a pair of my ex-wife's panties. Within seconds they were in the trash. Does that count?
/EA
! So funny Emily!
On the contrary, I have emotions thinking about clothes that I have thrown away in purges. And I would love to have them now.
Kisses from Carla
I haven't as any outfit past or present has a positive memory. There are clothes I remember affectionately from my early days.
Probably the opposite as there is a dress I have that is one of the oldest. It is now retro and I think my.mum gave it to me many moons ago. It didn't fit her but was from the 70's, it's looked after and still worn once a year and gets compliments.
Circa 40 years ago I wore a black pant suit and 4" black heels to Fantazia Fair, The Tiffany Club of New Englands' annual CD/TS conference in Provincetown Mass.
Thought I was in for a great time but only after a few hours of being all glammed up, I had a very concerning health episode, so I "panicked", left a brand new wig and breat forms on my hotel room bed and "fled" (in the middle of the night) all teh way back to my hotel in Boston.
I'd been travelling "on the run: for two weeks before hand an all the stress of thr trip led to my "complaint".
It all turned out OK in the end, but I;ve never forgotten to fright I got that night and I doubt if I ever wore than pant suit again.
These days it would not fit me...and the heels would wreck my back Minor details....
Caty