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Just a quick question for all the beautiful ladies on this site.
When you go out dressed up, do you make your best attempt to use a feminine voice? As I would like to have a pretty and higher voice, mine is deep and I rarely get time to train.
Do you just forget about it, or try your best to "pass"?
I generally just concentrate on speaking in a softer voice. I know a number of women with deeper than normal voices, but they all speak in a softer tone than men. I’ve been doing it so long that it just kind of happens automatically now when the wig goes on.
I tend to speak in a softer tone. If dealing with a cashier or where a 'thank you' is required I would look at the person and breathe the words and it works well for short answers.
I try, probably sound more like a cartoon character 😅, but, what the heck anyways. Ill keep on trying.
Good luck!!
Xx
Brianna
I really can't say I've tried hard to do that. I do have a fairly normal male voice. When out (only 4 times so far) I haven't given it a conscious thought. I'll be interested to read other's experiences.
I pretty much do the same as Angela. If it's just a short few words I will use a slightly higher, breathy voice but if it requires anything longer than that I use my regular voice. I try to speak softer and slower but it does not hide the fact that I am a male.
I'm working to perfect an acceptable female sounding voice. So far I can do it in short bursts, not conversant at all but enough to order a meal. I'm not sure if it is truly effective, but I have not been clocked because of it yet, at least to my knowledge. I've made recordings, they sound OK, but a long way to go to consider it truly effective.
The best way to describe it is I am using the upper register of my singing voice - head voice they call it - but speaking rather than singing. Not easy to stay up there! I was quite glad when virtually everyone at Keystone was using their regular voices!
It can be done girls, but it does take commitment, time, and practice. I started to try speaking in a feminine voice when I started going out dressed at the age of 14, and have perfected it since then as the years went by. I work with many people and guests at a reception desk, and I don't think I could have successfully transitioned at work if I wasn't able to speak in a feminine voice. I don't have a deep voice, never have, my singing voice is actually called a counter tenor, which means I can actually sing alto parts.
There are lots of online voice coaches that you can watch for free. I learned from a choir director where my natural singing voice is, and a lot of the techniques are similar to a lot of voice coaching. You can actually learn how to raise your larynx, or voice box, and train your muscles to keep your voice box in a higher position. As was mentioned you also learn to speak from the upper register of your singing voice. I am so used to speaking in this voice now that it has become my natural voice, I don't even have to try as it's what comes out as soon as I speak. I actually have to think about how to speak in the old boy voice, and it sounds so horrid why would I want to anyway.
Hugs girls,
Ms. Lauren M
I try my best to sound like a woman.
Yes, I do modify my speaking voice. I speak at a slightly higher register, perhaps a few notes up on the scale. I have a fairly wide vocal range and I used the Eva voice app which helped immeasurably.
Wow! Amazing advice! Thank you.
I usually don't venture out, agreement with the wife. I also do not have the time and energy to put into the voice practice. There are many free lessons on youtube that I have looked at. I figure that if I eventually go out and have not worked on this, I would try to whisper my words. I know that won't work in all situations, but it is a loose plan until I can dedicate the time for change.