meeting for the first time

Paula meeting another crossdresser in person is such a wonderful experience. I even traveled from Las Vegas to Seattle to spend a girls day with a friend. We spent the whole day dressed as our feminine selves. We interacted with people and had no problems. Each time you go out dressed you get more confidence in your feminine presentation and as yourself as a women. I now feel quit comfortable expressing my feminine side.

Next week I will be checking into a hotel as Julie, and them meeting a few friends for another girls day out. I know people my be able to tell I am A guy if they notice a few things, but my feminine expression is who I am and I feel very proud of that fact.

You could meet in male mode, but I think it is better to be the person you are. It was some time before I had the confidence to make the leap. Sweety it was the best thing I have ever done as a girl. Best wishes

Julie

Paula:

I think a proactive approach is needed. If You Build It, They Will Come only happens in the movies.

You can search the Member Directory for folks in your area:

Click on Social in the menu and then click on Member Directory.

I've never met any CD ever but I think it would be nice to meet other CD and get to chat with them. I too would probably meet in male mode for first time as you never know how things are going to go. I'd might/probably underdress. If it was a group meet coffee group I might go dressed as safety in numbers I guess. You just never know these days lol

I don't really dress around my hometown. I do like to travel, so I get to dress 24/7 when I do. I would personally love to meet other CDs. I think it would be so nice to have coffee or a meal while I'm in or near their town. Unfortunately, this is easier said than done.

I would love to belong to a group of crossdressers. I contacted a local group that meets for dinner and explained that I was a bearded man in a dress, Would a non-feminized crossdresser be welcome? No response. Maybe I should try again.

I would love to meet others just to chat, shop, share a cup of coffee etc. I live in the Omaha area so if you wish to get together for chat, message me!

As an Ambassador on TGH, I’ve never put much faith in “If You Build It, They Will Come.” That only happens in the movies. I will suggest that you search for members in your area by clicking on Social in the menu and then Member Directory.

This has worked for me. I have met a wonderful friend by searching the directory. I have also found a few other "local" gals that I've really enjoyed online.

Yes, Proactive is often better than Reactive…

Hi Paula,

I have benefited from meeting other CDs, male mode is good for the first time. One option is for one of you to host and the other visit, transforming when you get there. Obviously only after you feel comfortable. It has worked for me and builds confidence.

I hope you manage to find someone you can meet. Sadly there is the little matter of the Atlantic Ocean between us!

Janet xx