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Looking back on my first time out in my mid 30s. It felt natuaral and felt like a rush at the same time. I was dressed apropriately for going to walmart. That was when they first were putting in the self checkouts. I was lucky not to have to talk to a cashier. Thats about the only good thing I can say about self checkouts lol. For those new gurls wanting to go out for the first time make sure you wear apropriate outfit.
@christin73 I was 17 when I first went out. I was dressed in my Daisy duke out fit. I felt and looked so sexy. I drove around a lot and got nervous when stopped at a red light. Those in other cars and those crossing the street could see me. Still, it was an exciting experience.
I drove around some, got out of the car in several places, and go close enough to where I could be seen, but form a safe distance. it was an incredible experience. I was a lot more nervous then I had anticipated, but a lot more thrilling and exciting too.
@christin73 I was visibly shaking when I first went out in public . I was just a teenager and didn’t think it out. I wore tiny shorts, a spaghetti strap top, high heels and a long wig, with makeup. I looked like a teen hooker and several cars pulled to the curb trying to lure me inside. I made it home ok and was scared and excited and destined for a road of transgenderism
There is nothing quite like your first time, (for many things😘). You only get to do it the first time once, and then never again. Fortunately there are many "first" options.
One of the best things about the first time is challanging yourself to do it. It is scary and thrilling at rhe same time, and there is a sense of satisfaction when you actually do it and over come fear or anxiety.
Always such nice stories to read about people going out so happy for you all myself still no planes on ever leaving the closest
To each her own, but never say never. I had no plans to dress let alone go out, but as John Lennon said, "Life is what happens when you are busy making other plans." Let life happen and see where it takes you...you just might be surprised.
It was this year for me and felt like a huge adventure, indeed it still does,
Anna x
First time, what a rush, scared to death, almost 😅 . I am glad to have done it, but I wish to have been out with the general public earlier. I believe most of us are so afraid of being clocked, but in reality nobody pays attention or don’t care at all, maybe teenagers so I stay away from them, but clerks and general public are for the most part polite.
I totally agree, dress appropriately for the time, season and place.
My first time out fully dressed was mid-February, not much over 7 months ago. Just a 10-minute walk round the corner to the postbox to post a letter, and back. It felt like a huge scary thing at the time and that I was being really brave, but I so wanted to do it. I'm really glad I did. Not three months later, I started living as Fiona 24/7.
@finallyfiona even if it seemed small it was a huge step for you. congrats on that.
My first time out was in my 30's and it was a combination of terror and euphoria. It was a simple trip to a convenience store to get a cup of coffee. Looking back on it, I'm sure that my lack of confidence betrayed me but while a baby step, it was a huge thing to me. It started a process that has led me to where I am now. Now, I am relatively comfortable with my femininity and able to go out in public with little forethought or consideration.
