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I know this probably doesn't apply to most on here, but am curious about something. Has anybody been attracted to only women, but then became attracted to men after starting HRT? I have heard about some mental changes after starting estrogen, but have really been curious if it has changed who you are attracted to. I have read where some people says it didn't change it at all and others have said they have become attracted to men when they weren't before. Thank you for reading, girls:)
Samara
For myself been bi pretty much from early age. Since being on HRT tend to lean more to men Been dating a man for almost 3 weeks now. Been with woman also.
Donna
Hi Samara, well I became attracted to guys *without* ever having HRT so I'd say anything is possible with it. I've heard those same things myself so might be something to it. I'm really getting stronger urges to have it and eventually know what it's like to be a woman but I'm not ready to do it yet.
Thanks Donna! I have always been attracted to women, but for some reason when I am dressed and feeling sexy, the thought of being with a man turns me on. The clothes just do something to me, haha.
Samara
Thanks Jess! I'm not quite ready for Hrt, but think about it all the time. Would just love to see my breasts growing:) Just curious if it would make my feelings for men stronger:)
Samara
I know exactly what you mean Samara, the urges are incredible and very strong in that regard. I was really attracted to women in my teens but after wearing gorgeous lingerie enough times and also having a best friend at the time who was bi and who I thought was so good looking, it got to the point where I thought about guys (and specifically him) even when not dressed. Now we're together and I'm so glad the dressing turned me.
Feel same way too and since have estrogen raging from the HRT and body changing feel the need for Male companionship Suppose the same feelings would be same if met a real nice woman. HAHA believe really HRT don't do things like that think it the person inner feelings. Something maybe need to ask my DR next week when go into a checkup.
Donna
Samara, having breasts is another reason I've seriously been thinking about it myself, for now though it's all about bras/forms for me. I have to imagine there are those who have had it and their urges for men increase exponentially, especially if you thought about men at all *before* having it.
I know what you mean, there's just something about putting on things like sexy lingerie that flips a switch. It's weird, when I am out or at work dressed as a man, I am only attracted to women. When I get home and dress, all I think about is being with a man and I am really attracted to a certain male part, if you know what I mean, hehe:)
I have heard that too, Donna, that it just brings the inner feelings out that were there before. I know when I am feeling feminine, I just have the urge to be with someone masculine. I guess I feel really submissive:)
Have to imagine Donna that part of it is having some attraction or thought about men in the first place before HRT, that it doesn't necessarily *turn* you completely but if you have thought about guys prior to having it, the urges would increase a lot after having it.
Oh yes Samara I know what you mean 😉 and I can speak from experience that being with a guy, especially dressed in something like lingerie, is amazing and feels incredibly feminine and girly.
I really do long for that feeling sometimes:) Just really scared, haha. Hopefully some day!!
Suppose could be right know when dating always being the submessive type no matter if m or f lately more m
seems true Jess always feel that.