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I have been in the closet since the age of 10. I am now 61. I have recently started dressing more and more and love it so. Then more often I dress, the more comfortable I become. It feels natural. It feels right. I believe I have mentally transitioned to female.
I probably will not go through such a thing. I have accepted that I am a guy who loves to wear women's swimwear. In the past, I wondered if I was just in the early stages of complete gender transition, but I think that idea has passed. I don't really have an interest in wearing makeup and jewelry and carrying a purse. Plus I still enjoy things that guys do...and am mildly entertained by mowing the grass.
I think am having the the same sort of experience. The older I get, the more I need/want to be femme. Now I am noticing that my emotional reactions are much more typical of a woman than a man. I used to think I was a bi cd. Now I am wondering if could have aged into being trans.
I think your personality and thinking can be changed to totally female if you live as a female 24/7.
Very hard when you have to transition back and forth.though.
I still love my feminine time and I do think a lot more along the female perspective now.
Patty
I too believe you can mentally transition to female, especially if you live as a female a great percentage of the time. If you see yourself as female, act as a female and not as a male, you probably have mentally transitioned to see yourself as female.
Just my opinion.....
I think it’s possible to mentally transition to female but if one is a part time cross dresser then at best the transition is temporary. Perhaps, one living full time as a woman would have a longer feminine transition. As we know the brain is a complex organ. We have both compelling female and male personalities. A mix so to speak and often in contention with each other.
Again my own opinion.
Alice
The more I dwell on my female persona the more my male persona fades..I try to think, live and believe I am female. Maybe the subliminal hypno videos and crossdressing sites online have impacted my brains perception of myself. But there is a male shadow lurking deep down their that makes itself known now and then, but is quickly squelched and forced back deep inside..It helps to have a partner that reinforces and supports that female muse too, not letting the male id, or is it ego, an opportunity to express itself..
just some thoughts
Morgan
