Since this my first article im going to say a little about myself.

So, I’ve recently started to get more active in my crossdressing. This is mainly because I started feeling bad, like I was ashamed by who I really was, just because I couldn’t pass. Then I read something that made me think, “Some progress is still progress.” Now I’m working on who my female side is. Callie is me and I am her.

The point of this article is just to say love who you are. A few weeks ago go I had a bad experience that set me back a bit. I went out in full male clothes  and just my toes painted. As I was walking into the store a small minded high-school boy leans out of his truck laughs. Looking down at my toes he says, sarcastically, “nice color” and continued to laugh.

That was when my wife said that the only opinions of myself that should matter are mine and hers. Since then I’ve learned her opinion matters, I just can’t let it stop me from being me. She is mostly supportive, she just doesn’t understand it truly.

I have noticed that there are many reasons why we crossdress. Some do it because for those seconds in those clothes they feel better about themselves and everything. This is one of my reasons  I dress, it’s like bliss from the second I slip into my Fem clothes. Some do it because it gives them a perverse satisfaction. When I started this was the case, I did it for the arousal factor. Now it doesn’t have that effect on me.

This brings me to my last reason. Some us do it because it’s WHO WE ARE. Now I look back and I can’t understand doing it for perversion, but that’s me personally. Do it for any reason that feels right, but do it for you not for others. I see myself as a lady, and I am respectful about how I dress. This is not to say some of my clothes aren’t a bit risqué, but the only one who sees me in those clothes is me.

Be yourself don’t let any one stop you from being yourself.

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callie sails

Newly renewed dresser. Married with two kids. My wife is semi supportive

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Dot (Donna B)

Very nicely expressed. The reason to dress doesn’t matter. It is an internal need being met and is valid for each of us. Whatever the motivation there are others who are like us.



Hi Callie, I’ve not been about on the site as I should have been lately and just read your article. I had a similar experience myself last week, only it was with my fingernails a group of builders shouted at me ‘ show us your nails’ , I was dressed in male clothes at the time. I proudly showed them my nails. Several swear words later they shouted to me ‘where’s your dress ‘ I just said its at home today and carried on walking. They kept shouting obscenities to me until I dissapeared from view. My thoughts were, small… Read more »

Patsy Jennusaith

Some days I’m doing it for sexual thrill, and other days I’m doing it because I want to feel what it’s like to be a woman. For most cross dressing sessions it’s a combination of both.

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